我有个朋友 叫黛博拉 是名心理学家 I have a friend, Deborah, a psychologist...
费城当局曾邀请她 who was asked by the city of Philadelphia...
给刚来这座城市的 if she could offer psychological...
柬埔寨裔海上难民 counseling to Cambodian refugees...
提供义工心理辅导 boat people, who had recently arrived in the city.
黛博拉对此感到畏惧 因为这些柬埔寨人 Deborah was daunted by the task. These Cambodians...
遭受过最惨的际遇 大屠杀 饥荒 had suffered genocide, starvation,
眼睁睁看着亲人遭杀害 relatives murdered before their eyes...
常年住在难民营 甘冒危险乘船前往西方 years in refugee camps, harrowing boat trips to the west.
她怎么能理解他们的感受 How could she relate to their suffering?
又谈何帮助呢 How could she help these people?
大家猜猜这些人都会给我的朋友 So guess what all these people wanted to talk about...
心理学家黛博拉谈些什么 with my friend Deborah, the psychologist.
几乎都是 我在难民营遇见了这个男人 It was all, "I met this guy in the refugee camp.
本以为他真爱我 I thought he really loved me,
但分手后 but when we got separated...
他却和我表妹好上了 he took up with my cousin.
而现在又说爱的是我 Now he says he loves me...
还一直给我打电话 and keeps calling me.
他们现在结婚了 我该怎么办 They're married now. What should I do?"
我还爱着他 I still love him.
这就是我们的真相 This is how we are.
有什么事吗 May I help you?
我叫莉兹·吉尔伯特 在写一篇有关巴厘岛的文章 I'm Liz Gilbert. I'm writing a magazine article on Bali.
我想见一名巫医 I wanted to meet a medicine man.
大家都建议我来见老四赖爷 Everyone said I should meet Ketut Liyer.
他是住在这里吗 Am I in the right place?
等一下 Wait.
我马上就会见到这位传承到第九代的巫医 I mean, here I am with a ninth-generation medicine man...
该问他什么呢 and what do I wanna ask him about?
如何离上帝更近 Getting closer to God?
如何拯救全世界的饥饿儿童 Saving the world's starving children?
很高兴见到你 我是老四赖爷 Happy to see you. I am Ketut Liyer.
不 我只想和他谈论我的婚姻 Nope. I wanna discuss my relationship.
你是个世界的旅人 You are a world traveler.
你会活很久 You will live a long time...
有许多朋友 经历丰富 have many friends, many experiences.
你这辈子会有两次婚姻 一长一短 You will have two marriages. One long, one short.
我现在的婚姻是长是短 Am I in the long one or the short one?
天机不可泄露 Can't tell.
还有你会失去所有金钱 Also you will lose all your money.
我想就在接下来的六到十个月 I think in next six to ten months.
别担心 你会再拿回来的 Don't worry. You will get it all back again.
还有 你会重回巴厘 And you will come back to Bali...
并在这里待上三四个月 and live here for three or four months
教我英语 and teach me English.
从没有人能跟我练习英语 I never had anybody to practice my English with.
然后 And then...
我就会把我知道的一切教给你 I will teach you everything I know.
等等 Wait.
给你这个 I have this for you.
坚定地踩在地上 就像你有四条腿 Keep grounded so it's like you have four legs.
这样 你才能待在这个世上 That way, you can stay in this world.
还有 不要用脑袋看世界 Also, no looking at world through your head.
而是用你的心 Look through your heart instead.
如此才可能了解神 That way, you will know God,
这就是你来此的原因 不是吗 which is why you came here, no?
再见 钝吻鳄 See you later, alligator.
六个月后
我校对了我妻子的所有手稿 I proofread all of her manuscripts.
她真的非常非常棒 My wife is very, very beautiful,
但实在不敢恭维她的拼写 but she can't spell for anything.
史蒂芬叔叔 Look at uncle Stephen.
莉兹婶婶 And auntie Liz.
我煎熬地期待派对快点结束 I'm counting the minutes for this party to be
这样我就能钻进宽松的大号睡裤里 over so l can get in my big girl pants.
你看上去棒极了 一点也不像刚生了小孩 You look fantastic. You just had a baby.
你说谎 我胖了 而且筋疲力尽 You're lying. I'm fat. I'm exhausted.
我只有一个感觉 我就是丽莎·明妮莉 I can't keep two thoughts. I feel like Liza Minnelli.
史蒂芬 能抱会杰克吗 Stephen, can you hold Jack?
-介绍你认识沃尔特 -好的 - I'm gonna introduce you to Walter. - Yeah.
老兄 想来杯啤酒什么的吗 Dude, you wanna grab a beer or something?
我的新书会在四月出版 谢谢关心 My new book comes out in April. Thank you for asking.
-很好 -是五月 - Great. - May.
对 是五月 五月 May. May.
这是安德烈 你们俩是《时代》杂志的 This is Andre. You two are times'
最佳名人候选人 most notable nominees.
很高兴终于见到你了 So glad to finally meet you.
很高兴终于见到你了 Nice to finally meet you.
我喂过他玉米脆饼了 没问题吧 I fed him nachos. Is that bad?
你看起来很舒服 You look comfortable.
你喂他吃什么 三氯甲烷吗[麻醉剂] What'd you feed him, chloroform?
-来让你爸爸抱吧 -我说了 玉米脆饼 - Give him to his dad. - I told you, nachos.
如果我那样拉一通的话 我也会睡那么香 Know what? I'd be asleep too if l had a dump like that.
-到妈妈那里去吧 -来吧 - We'll give him to his mom. - Come here then.
-想帮我换尿布吗 -好的 - Wanna help me change his diaper? - Yes, I do.
古董车销售怎么样 How's the vintage car thing going?
不 不 不 我换工作了 现在是糕点师 No, no, no. I changed jobs. I'm a pastry chef now.
-你是面包师傅了 -对 - You mean you're a baker. - Yeah.
你想被烤吗 You wanna get baked?
妈妈知道 I know, I know.
很不舒服 是不是 It's hard, isn't it?
不 这很有趣的 No. This is so much fun.
还记得你想生孩子的那一瞬间吗 Did you know the exact moment you wanted to have a baby?
不记得了 但是在我结婚之前 I can't remember, but I've had the
就有一个箱子 box since before I got married.
什么箱子 What box?
有点幼稚 真尴尬啊 It's girly and embarrassing, and
如果告诉你 你会笑话我的 you'll laugh at me if I tell you.
我会笑话你 不过你还是得告诉我 I will laugh at you, but you still have to tell me.
好吧 Come on.
床下面 Under the bed.
里面装满了宝宝的东西 I've been filling it with baby things...
一直等到安迪准备好做父亲 waiting until Andy was ready to be a father.
真温馨 So sweet.
这条我都能穿得下吧 Does this come in my size?
我也有个这样的箱子 不过里面 I have a box just like this, except it's
装满了《国家地理》 filled with National Geographics...
和《时代》的旅游版面 and the Times travel section.
都是我死之前想去的地方 All the places I wanna see before I die.
莉兹 生孩子就像在脸上刺青 Liz, having a baby is like getting a tattoo on your face.
做之前一定得确定你想这么做 You kind of wanna be fully committed.
我下周去阿鲁巴岛 So my trip to Aruba next week,
只是写最基本的游记 比如 which is just a basic, you know...
"去哪睡觉 游泳 品尝美食"之类的 "where to sleep, swim and stuff your face" piece....
我买了新的比基尼 I got a new bikini.
不过我刚知道 可以无限制享受酒店小冰箱里的食物 And it turns out, I have unlimited minibar access.
-知道说明什么吗 -时差综合症 - You know what that means? - Jet lag?
你和我 You, me...
尽情享用澳洲坚果 macadamia nuts.
真可爱 That was cute.
你知道我在聚会上跟谁聊天 You know who I was talking to at the
他真的让我挺佩服的 party who was really inspiring...
-塔拉的朋友 -布莱恩 - ...was Tara's friend. - Brian.
布莱恩 不可思议 他是个老师 你知道吗 Brian. Unbelievable. He's a teacher, you know that?
是代课老师 不是吗 He's a substitute teacher, isn't he?
对 他谈到了 Yeah. He was talking about the
教育费用预算的缩减 budget cuts that are happening right now.
学校几乎一分钱也没有了 There's no money for anything.
取消了音乐课 艺术课 There's no music classes, there's no arts classes.
他们放学后志愿给孩子们补习 They're volunteering their time to do all of this after school.
教孩子们音乐和艺术 They're educating our kids, you know?
我想你会是个了不起的老师 亲爱的 I think you'd make a great teacher, honey.
谢谢 不过我考虑得更长远 Thank you, but I was thinking more of like...
我想考个教育硕士学位 education. Getting my masters,
继续深造 我不知道 going back to school. I don't know.
知道吗 You know?
我 你知道 I-- you know....
-继续深造 -你当我在自言自语吧 - Going back to school. - I'm just thinking out loud.
我有个不祥的预感 I was getting the sinking feeling that
赖爷的预言就要成真了 Ketut's prophecy was coming true.
现在的婚姻是短的那个吗 Was I in the shorter marriage?
我们一年前才买的这套房子 We'd only bought this house a year ago.
这不是我想要的生活吗 Hadn't I wanted this?
我主动参与创造这种生活的 I had actively participated in every moment of the creation...
每时每刻 of this life.
那为什么我觉得这一切根本就不像我 So why didn't I see myself in any of it?
还有什么比待在这段婚姻中更不现实 The only thing more impossible than staying...
只有离开 was leaving.
我不想伤害任何人 我想 I didn't wanna hurt anybody. I wanted
悄悄地从后门溜走 to slip quietly out the back door...
直到跑到格陵兰岛才停下来 and not stop running until I reached Greenland.
不过我并未这样做 我只是开始 Instead, I made a decision.
祈祷 To pray.
你知道 就是向神祷告那样 You know, like, to God.
这对我来说确是很新鲜的一件事 And it was such a flaring concept to me
我尽量克制自己不说 that I swear I almost began with
我一直很迷您的作品 "I'm a big fan of your work."
你好啊 神啊 Hello, god?
很高兴终于见到了你 我 Nice to finally meet you. I....
对不起 我从前没直接跟您说过话 I am sorry I've never spoken directly to you before...
但 but...
我希望我对您 I hope I've expressed my...
赐予我的一切可以一直表达万分 ample gratitude for all the blessings you've given...
感激之意 to me in my life.
我面临严重的麻烦 I'm in serious trouble.
不知如何是好 I don't know what to do.
我需要您的帮助 I need an answer.
拜托 指点我该怎么办 Please, tell me what to do.
上帝 请帮我 God, help me, please.
告诉我该怎么办 我会谨遵教诲 Tell me what to do and I'll do it.
回去睡觉 莉兹 Go back to bed, Liz.
我不想去阿鲁巴岛 I don't wanna go to Aruba.
我也不想结婚 I don't wanna be married.
《谁动了我的奶酪》
《不幸到幸福》
楼下有离婚书籍的专区 You know, there's a whole divorce section downstairs.
-胡椒研磨机 -她有点 - "Pepper grinder." - She's having...
-精神崩溃 -女生就是这样 - a nervous breakdown. - This is what girls do.
她正在想办法 She's processing.
她为什么不大醉一场或出去鬼混一下 Why doesn't she get drunk or get laid?
如果你抛弃我 我就这么做 That's what I would do if you left me.
不 你不会的 No, you wouldn't.
-对 我不会 -她搬出来 还写好了离婚协议 - No, I wouldn't. - She moved out, she filed for divorce.
他们在一起八年 而现在无家可归了 They were together eight years. She's got no home.
遗留之物 "Legacy."
意大利语的每个词都像是块松露 Every word in Italian is like a truffle.
魔术 A magic trick.
亲爱的 我懂 现在它是你的救生筏 Honey, I get it. It's your life raft right now.
安迪和我分手两个星期后 我买了个织布机 When Andy and I broke up for two weeks, I bought a loom.
一个要命的织布机 而他想开一家小啤酒厂 A frigging loom. And he tried to start a microbrewery.
搞不明白你们这些家伙怎么不嫌弃我 I don't know how you guys aren't sick of me now.
我都讨厌自己了 I'm sick of me.
开玩笑吧 我们很爱你 Are you kidding me? We love having you.
就像是别墅中的作家 It's kind of like having a writer in residence.
而你的确是个作家 你该写点东西 But you are a writer. You should be writing something.
也许可以写一个女人 Maybe I could write about a woman
去意大利学意大利语 who goes to Italy to learn Italian.
就叫《碳水化合物和变位动词》 Call it Carbohydrates and Conjugations.
我得先找个住的地方 I'll start looking for a place.
-我爱上你了 -我不是你想的那样 - I'm falling in love with you. - I'm not who you think I am.
我只是你的幻想 I'm just your fantasy.
不 瞎说 你是真实的 No, that's bullshit. You're real.
你的伤痕 你的天赋 Your scars, your talent.
事实上 我不过只有一个烂酒吧 The fact that I own a piece-of-crap bar...
而你却毫不嫌弃 and you accept that that's all I'm gonna do.
好吧 真够烂 Okay, this sucks.
-我同意 -礼貌点 - I second that. - Don't be rude.
我爱你的痛楚 I love your pain.
我喜欢我们在一起时 我能消除你的痛苦 And I love that when we're together, I can make it go away.
-他真棒 -你给我的爱 - He's good. - Your love...
-他很性感 但不代表他演技好 -就像是一块热面包 - He's hot, there's a difference. - ...is like a hot panini.
当注视你的双眸 And when I look into your eyes,
我听见海豚拍打波浪的声音 I hear dolphins clapping.
我没写这句话 I did not write that line.
这是他还不知道的 Here's what he doesn't know yet.
我消失在所爱的人心中 I disappear into the person I love.
我是可渗透的薄膜 I am the permeable membrane.
如果我爱你 你就拥有我的一切 If I love you, you can have it all.
我的金钱 时间 身体 My money, my time, my body...
我的狗 还有狗狗的钱 my dog, my dog's money.
我会承担你的债务 协助你 I will assume your debts and project upon you...
帮你完善自己本不具有的 all sorts of nifty qualities you've
各种优秀品质 never actually cultivated in yourself.
我会给你一切 或许更多 I will give you all this and more...
直到我筋疲力竭 until I am so exhausted and depleted.
我恢复的唯一方法 The only way l can recover...
就是头脑发热和某人腻在一起 is by becoming infatuated with someone else.
-伊莉莎白 你好 -你好 - Elizabeth, hi. - Hi.
干杯 Cheers.
-谢谢 -我该向你道歉 - Thank you. - I owe you an apology.
-演出时我走神了 -并不是所有人都喜欢我 - For the walkouts. - I'm not everyone's cup of tea.
我不信 I doubt that.
另外 我是个混蛋 I, on the other hand, was shit.
-尽管我很努力了 -混蛋这个词太过了 - Although I was trying very hard. - "Shit" is a strong word.
谢谢 Thank you.
你看上去比在舞台上矮 You seem shorter in person than on the stage.
-是吗 好多人都这么说 -不好意思 - Really? I hear that a lot. - Sorry.
没关系 It's okay.
很让人不安 当 It's unnerving when...
一个陌生人比你自己更清楚自己的时候 a total stranger sees you more clearly than you see yourself.
就好比我告诉你 你个子不高 That's what I mean by saying you're short.
你现在听到海豚拍打波浪的声音了吗 Are you hearing dolphins clapping right now?
我自由发挥了你的剧本 I took a few liberties with your material.
我完全允许你 I give you full permission to make
嘲笑我 我知道你很乐于取笑我 fun of me. I know you're dying to.
你毫无缺点让我嘲笑 You're far too charming to make fun of.
我还能听到它们拍的波浪的声音 I'm still hearing them.
那是你的古鲁吗 Is that your guru?
你在开玩笑 不过 对 就是她 You're joking, but, yes, it is.
她很漂亮 She's beautiful.
对 有个朋友跟我讲过 Yeah. A friend told me about her.
有次我失业了 特别想做一件事 I was out of work and feeling pretty desperate for something.
不是上次失业 是上上次 Not the last time I was out of work, the time before that.
我的这种感觉就像是 And I just had this feeling like I
我寻找的地方都不对 was looking in all the wrong places.
找什么 Looking for what?
上帝 God.
她在印度有个静修处 我特别想去 不过 She has an ashram in India. I'm dying to go, but...
只有生病才能去 比如 you know, you have to get, like,
重型肝炎患者 three stages of hepatitis shots...
我的保险经常失效 and my insurance always runs out.
所以等时机成熟我就去 I'll go when the time's right.
每天早上她的学生就会聚在一起 There's a gathering of her students every morning.
如果你也想 有时间我可以带你去 If you want, I could take you sometime.
倘若跟几百人在房间里用梵语 If you're not unnerved by 100
吟诵神的名字 不会吓着你的话 crunchy people chanting in Sanskrit...
我需要一些刺激 I need to be unnerved.
大卫 来自纽约郊区的瑜伽信徒 David. A yogi from Yonkers.
我并不是真的爱上了他 I didn't exactly fall in love with the guy.
我只是钻出了我的婚姻 What happened was I dove out of my marriage...
一头钻入大卫的怀抱 and into David's arms...
就像卡通里的马戏团演员 exactly the same way a cartoon circus performer...
从高台跳下 钻入一小杯水里 dives off a high platform and into a small cup of water...
消失得无影无踪 vanishing completely.
你的内衣 女王陛下 Your underwear, my queen.
他竟然帮我叠好内衣 He just folded my delicates.
天啊 宝贝 你麻烦大了 My god, baby, you are in so much trouble.
三十六楼 Thirty-six?
我的当事人对离婚不感兴趣 My client is simply not interested in a divorce.
他认真的吗 Is he serious?
他真的要自己代理吗 Is he really representing himself?
在你面前的人可是在法学院待过一学期的 宝贝 One semester of law school right here, baby.
很好 那么 你的当事人对什么感兴趣 Great. Well, what would it take to interest your client?
好 这样吧 你搞砸了我的生活 Okay, so here's the deal. You have screwed up my life...
但是我真的想知道 为什么你不能找到你在 but what l wanna know is why couldn't you find yourself...
婚姻中的角色 in our marriage?
为什么不说出你的想法和感受 Why didn't you say what you were thinking or feeling?
我说过 但是你从来不听 I did. But you never listen to me.
不 不 没有 没有 你从来没说 No, no, no, no. You never said...
"嘿 你知道吗 你真混球 我很不开心" "Hey, you know what? You suck. I'm deeply unhappy."
你只是脚一抬走掉了 从不给我 You just took off. You never gave me
机会解决这些问题 a chance to address those problems.
这不公平 只是走掉 我发过誓 That's not fair. That's just quitting. I took vows.
直到死亡愤慨 我在认真对待婚姻 Till death. And I take them seriously.
我相信这只是一个低潮 我愿意等 I believe this is just a phase and I'm willing to wait it out.
你总是等 史蒂芬 You are always waiting, Stephen.
等我回家 等着生小孩 Waiting for me to come home, to wanna have kids...
等着给你做饭 我不懂为什么不承认 to make you dinner. I don't know why we can't accept...
我们其实都不想再生活在不幸中 we don't wanna live in unhappiness any more.
我承认 我偶尔不可依靠 I accept the fact that I am occasionally unreliable...
我经常转移话题 and I often get sidetracked,
但是我以为你喜欢我这样 but I thought you liked that about me.
我觉得我有希望有梦想是件好事 I thought it was okay that I had hopes and dreams.
有梦想 史蒂芬 好 Have a dream. Stephen, great,
很好 就这么做 选一个 fine. Do that. Just pick one.
好 我选 选你 Okay, I pick one. I pick you.
我知道这很糟糕 I know this is awful.
但是我身体的每个细胞都相信 But I believe with every molecule of my
你会找到一个人 body that you will find the person...
和你的想法相同 that wants just what you want.
这样你就得到你想要的 That will give you what you want
还有你应得的 但我不是 and what you deserve. I'm not her.
很明显 你不知道我想要什么 Well, you obviously know nothing about what I want.
我的当事人会提交他写的一首歌 My client would like to submit a song he wrote...
他相信跟此过程有所联系 that he believes it's relevant with this procedings.
大致是这样的 It goes something like this...
你开什么玩笑呢 Are you kidding?
懦夫 懦夫 懦夫 Quitter, quitter, quitter!
够了 都是我错行了吧 Alright. How about I take the blame?
是我无法再忍受 I am the one who couldn't deal...
周末漫步于大型超市过道 with another weekend roaming some box-shaped superstore...
刷卡购买更多的家用品 装的像别的夫妻一样 buying appliances on credit and pretending to be a couple that
其实我们都不知道什么是婚姻 neither one of us ever knew how to be.
是你要买那个烤面包机的 You wanted that toaster.
"你要演戏就演吧 你是最佳主角 "You like faking it, fine. You're stellar.
我不会演戏 我不会假装" I'm the failure. I suck at faking it."
那种日子真不好过 lt was not my finest hour.
那现在事情进展到什么地步了 So where do things stand now?
我们同意给你一半的财产 包括住房 We're prepared to offer half of everything, including the house,
以及我客户的退休养老金 and my client's retirement accounts.
那你全拿去吧 所有东西 Take it all then. Everything.
他还是不同意 He still said no.
-他现在恨我 -他不是恨你 - He hates me now. - He doesn't hate you.
他只是心碎了 His heart is broken.
我觉得他恨你 I think he hates you.
小心我把你锁进地下室永远出不来 Ok. I'm never letting you out of the basement.
我们何不下星期再谈 看事情有什么进展呢 Why don't we talk next week and we'll see where things stand?
-好 -这种事情总有解决之道的 - Okay. - These things have a way of working themselves out.
那你怎么成为素食主义者的呢 So why'd you become a vegetarian?
我曾经见过屠杀牛 I saw some cows slaughtered one time.
你都没怎么动你的晚餐 Barely touched your dinner.
他才二十八岁 He's 28.
这对他来说很难吧 那你呢 This is hard for him, isn't it? And you?
做做冥想能好很多 The meditations help.
莉兹 Liz.
你还记得几年以前 You remember a couple of years ago,
你把自己置身于家里厨房的整修 when you threw yourself into the renovation of your kitchen?
你当时看着多像个完美的妻子和家庭煮妇啊 You were completely consumed with being the perfect wife and cook.
我试着让婚姻延续来着 I was trying to make it work.
我觉得诵经和冥想是一回事儿 Well, I think chanting and meditation is the same thing...
只是形式的区别罢了 in a different costume.
一定给我那个资料 Definitely give me that documentary.
我一直琢磨要试试当素食主义者呢 I've been thinking about trying out of vegetarianism.
你知道 我的甘油三脂已经高得不行了 You know, my triglycerides are through the roof.
没问题 谢谢今晚的招待 Yeah. Thanks for everything.
很高兴遇见你 Great to meet you.
-怎么啦 -没什么 就是... - What? - Nothing. It's just...
你知道 你过去看着像史蒂芬 you know, you used to look like Stephen.
现在你看着有些像大卫 Now you kind of look like David.
我意思是说 What l meant was,
你知道主人和他的狗越来越像 you know how people start resembling their dogs?
他为什么那么说啊 我们看着像同一只狗 Why would he say that, we look like the same dog?
-他那是开玩笑的 -一点儿也不好笑 - He was joking. - Not funny.
他喝了五瓶啤酒 他喝醉了 Well, he had five Heinekens. He was bombed.
不好笑 Well, not funny.
我们看着才不像同一只狗呢 We don't look like the same dog.
就算是 也是你是柯利牧羊犬而我是藏獒 If anything, you're a collie and I'm a tibetan mastiff.
不要让我有机会想你 Don't wanna give me a chance to miss you.
这开始于当你喜爱的对象 It begins when the object of your affection...
让你对一种你都不敢承认你想拥有的东西 bestows upon you a heady hallucinogenic dose...
有种强烈的梦幻感 ...of something you've never even dared to admit you wanted...
一种强烈的爱与刺激的情感速度球 ...an emotional speedball of thunderous love and excitement.
很快地你开始渴求那种注意力 Soon you start craving that attention
就像瘾君子的毒瘾一样 with the hungry obsession of any junkie.
当这种情绪被克制时 你变得病怏怏和疯狂 When it's withheld, you turn sick, crazy,
更别提对一开始就让你上瘾 not to mention resentful of the dealer who encouraged this addiction
但现在却不给你好货的毒贩子的憎恶 in the first place but now refuses to pony up the good stuff.
就是挫败感吧我觉得 我不知道 Just frustrated, I'm concerned. I don't understand.
你还缺什么啊 What don't you get?
到底怎么了 你不再看着我的眼睛 What's going on? You don't look me in the eye.
-你没做完... -没有人要你整理床 - You don't finish your... - Nobody's asking you to make the bed!
-你和我没有性生活 -有时候我没性趣 - You don't have sex with me! - Sometimes I'm not in the mood!
去他的 他过去都是免费给的 Goddamn him, and he used to give it to you for free.
接下来你瘦的皮包骨头 在角落里发抖 Next stage finds you skinny, shaking in a corner...
很显然只有你一个人出卖了灵魂 ...certain only that you'd sell your soul...
只想再一次拥有的东西 ...just to have that one thing one more time.
那我们为何不说出来呢 为什么不去协调呢 Well, then why don't we discuss it? Why don't we sort it?
-我们为何不能像成人一样呢 -行 我能有点私人空间吗 - Why don't we act like adults? - Okay. Can I have a little space?
-这样行吗 -同时... - How about that? - Meanwhile...
此时你就打败了你喜爱的对象 ...the object of your adoration is now repulsed by you.
你并不是总让我苦不堪言 You don't always make me miserable.
-有时候挺舒服的 -我就是 - There's a comfort. - I just--
有时候需要回家来 sometimes l need to come home...
有点我自己的时间 ...and have a little David time.
他看着你就仿佛未曾谋面的人一样 He looks at you like someone he's never met before.
-可以吗 -行啊 没关系 - Is that okay? - Yeah. No, it's fine.
不需要...你知道...去调整它 And not have to, like, you know, justify it.
讽刺的是 你却不能怪他 The irony is you can hardly blame him.
我意思是 看看你自己 一团糟 I mean, check yourself out. You're a mess.
你自己都不认识你自己了 Unrecognizable even to your own eyes.
你要我过来这里 我来了 You asked me to come here? Here I am.
但情况却变了 And it turned into something else.
-不是吗 -你真像个孩子似的 - Didn't it? - You are such a child.
-好吧 我受够了 -行 没问题 - Right. I can't take this anymore. - Great. Perfect.
这可真是对我们谈话的好回应啊 That's a great response to a conversation.
该死的 God damn it.
现在你到了迷恋的最终阶段 You have now reached infatuation's final destination.
对自己彻底冷酷无情的诋毁 The complete and merciless devaluation of self.
你要离开一年吗 You wanna go away for a year?
你知道今天早上我醒来时什么感觉吗 迪莉亚 Do you know what I felt when l woke up this morning, delia?
一无所有 没激情 没火花 Nothing. No passion, no spark,
没信仰 没感情 什么也没有 no faith, no heat. Absolutely nothing.
我觉得我必须要想办法 I think I really got to past the point
熬过这个糟糕的阶段 where I can be calling this a bad moment.
这太可怕了 天哪 And it just terrifies me. Jesus,
对我来说这比死都可怕 this is like worse than death to me...
一想到这将是我的人生 我就觉得太可怕了 the idea that this is the person I'm gonna be from now on.
知道吗 这是正常的 You know what, this happens to people.
人们在二十几岁恋爱 结婚 They fall in love in their 20s, get married...
三十几岁照顾家庭 do the granite countertop, white-picket fence in their 30s...
某天他们意识到"我再也不要这样的生活了" and somewhere they realize, "this is not for me anymore."
所以他们失败 跌倒 So they fail and they fall down,
他们受伤 他们振作 they hurt like hell, they straighten up...
他们找心理咨询 and march their asses to the shrink's office.
-人不能一走了事 -我没有一走了事 - They can't just check out. - I am not checking out.
我需要改变 I need to change.
这里有人关心支持你 莉兹 You have a support system here, liz.
你有爱你的朋友和亲人 You have friends and family who love you.
你感觉到我对你的爱和支持了吗 没有 And do you feel my love for you? My support for you? No.
我就像是行尸走肉 There's, like, nothing. I have no pulse.
-我要去意大利 -为什么去意大利呢 - l am going to Italy. - Italy. Why Italy?
-你午饭吃的什么 -沙拉什么的吧 - What did you have for lunch? - I don't know. A salad.
没错 我过去对食物有激情 Exactly. I used to have this appetite for food,
对生活有激情 可现在什么都没了 for my life and it is just gone.
我想去一个能让我感到惊奇的地方 I wanna go someplace where I can marvel at something.
语言 冰激凌 意大利面 等等 Language, gelatoes, spaghetti, something.
你说这话就跟高中生似的 You're talking like a college kid.
知道吗 我一直活得像个高中生 You know, I've been acting like one.
从十五岁开始 我要么是和一个男生在一起 Since I was 15, I've either been with a guy
要么是和一个男生分手 or breaking up with a guy.
我连两个星期的短暂休息都没给过自己 I have not given myself two weeks of a breather...
来处理我自己的事情 ...to just deal with, you know, myself.
你和大卫之间发生什么了 What's going on with you and David?
怎么 你掉下床啦 What, did you fall out?
我不知道如何适应这里 I don't know how to be here.
你想知道怎么适应这里吗 You wanna know how to be here?
别在一直期待什么了 Stop constantly waiting for something.
我要去意大利 然后我要去 I'm going to Italy and then I'm going
大卫精神导师在印度的静修处 to David's guru's ashram in India...
最后我在巴厘岛结束这一年 ...and I'm going to end the year in Bali.
这就是我的计划 That's what I'm gonna do.
这无可厚非 那里沙滩很美 但为什么呢 That's harder to argue with. The beaches are nice. But why?
因为赖爷告诉我的. Because Ketut told me I would.
那个没牙的老头 Guy with no teeth.
当你绝望时有人 When you're desperate and some guy who,
没错看着有些像尤达大师 yes, looks a little like Yoda...
递给你一封预言书 你必需有所回应 ...hands you a prophecy, you have to respond.
-你需要阿普唑仑[镇静剂]吗 -当然 - Do you need a Xanax? - Always.
好 无论如何我要说 Okay, l'm just gonna say it.
说完就再也不提此事 I'm gonna say it and be done with it.
要是这样也无济于事呢 What if it doesn't work?
我的整个生活就装在了一个十二英尺的箱子里 My whole life fits in a 12-foot-square box.
你知道这话我一天要听多少次吗 You know how many times I hear that in a day?
很多人永远把生活留在这里了 Most of them never come back for their whole life.
-喂 -莉兹 - Hello? - Liz.
好消息 史蒂芬刚签了离婚协议书 Good news. Stephen just signed the divorce papers.
我可能一个星期就回来 身无分文还患痢疾 I'll probably be back in a week, penniless with dysentery.
你是我的英雄 You're my hero.
如果你留下来 我们每天都出去吃印度饭 If you stay, we'll go out for Indian every night.
你从没让我留下来过 You never asked me to stay.
走 走 走 Go, go, go.
你知道可笑的事是什么吗 You know what's funny?
这是我生命里第一次 This is the first time in my life
没有人等着我回家 there's no one waiting at home for me.
我甚至连个能回的家都没有 I don't even have a home to come back to.
哦 天啊 你会结识新朋友的 Oh, God. You'll make friends.
你的背包会一直陪伴你的 放心吧 You'll make friends with a backpack, of course.
出去走走挺好的 It'd be great to get away.
安迪和我讨论什么时候去佛罗伦萨 Andy and I were talking about getting a little villa
村庄别墅度一个月假呢 in Florence for a month sometime.
你知道 再十年 当杰克长大点儿 You know, and in 1 0 years, when Jack is older....
怎么啦 What?
你知道为什么我这么不想你离开吗 You know why l was giving you such a hard time?
我爱我的工作 我男人 我小孩 但是 I love my job, my guy and my kid, but....
我希望我能出去走走 I wish I could go.
我爱你 我为你骄傲 I love you and l'm proud of you.
赶紧走吧 Now go.
有个绝妙的意大利传统笑话... There is a wonderful old Italian joke...
说一个穷人每天去教堂 ...about a poor man who goes to church every day
并在圣人雕像前面祈祷请求 and prays before the statue of the great saint begging
"伟大的圣人 "Dear saint, please, please,
求你让我赢一次乐透奖吧" please let me win the lottery."
最终 恼怒的雕像活了 Finally, the exasperated statue comes to life
他低头看着这个祷告的人说 and looks down to the begging man and said
"孩子啊 请你先买张乐透券吧" "My son, please, please, please buy a ticket."
现在我明白这个笑话了 So now l get the joke.
并且我买了三张票 And l've got three tickets.
你在炉子上烧水 You heat the water on the stove.
那如果我想洗澡呢 So if I want to bathe...?
你把热水倒进浴缸 You put the water in the tub.
好的 Okay.
这水看着不够洗澡用啊 Yeah. It doesn't really seem like enough water to bathe in.
不够 Not enough.
够用了 Yes, it's enough.
倒个三次 四次 五次 Fill it up three, four, five times.
一切就都干净了 Everything that's important gets cleaned.
这安全吗 这... Is this safe? This...
这些脚手架... ...scaffolding? Scaffol--
它用来支撑屋顶 否则会倒下的 It holds up the ceiling. Otherwise it will fall apart.
所有东西都会倒的 孩子 Everything falls apart, my dear.
生命中唯一永恒的是家 The only thing permanent in life is family.
你没结婚 You're not married.
不是 离婚了 No, divorziata.
为什么离啊 Why divorced?
我们不合 We broke it.
现在的你更高兴吗 You're more happy now?
我有个规则 I have one rule.
不许带陌生男人过夜 No strange men spending the night.
你们美国姑娘来了意大利 You american girls when you come to ltaly
就是想要意大利面和腊肠 all you want is pasta and sausage.
我记住了 I'll take it.
好 明智之选 Good. You chose well.
卡布其诺 Cappuccino.
-这就跟动物园似的 -我的意大利语很差 - lt's a zoo in here. - And my ltalian sucks.
-你来这儿多久了 -两周 你呢 - How long have you been here? - Two weeks. You?
六周 你会适应的 Six weeks. You'll get better.
两杯卡布其诺 谢谢 Two cappuccinos, please.
这次要温牛奶 And warm the milk this time.
昨天牛奶太热都烫到我舌头了 Yesterday it was too hot and burned my tongue.
-你喜欢千层酥点心吗 -当然 - You like napoleons? -Of course.
两个千层酥点心 谢谢 And two napoleons, please.
你的意大利语真厉害 Your italian is fantastic.
我有个很棒的个人老师 I have a wonderful tutor.
我可以给你他电话如果你需要 I'll give you his number if you like.
-他真的很不错并且他在找工作 -好极了 - He's really good and he needs work. - Oh, great.
你是荷兰人吗还是德国人 Are you Dutch? German?
瑞典人 更靠北 如果你有那个概念 Swedish. Even colder people, if you can imagine.
-我是莉兹 -苏菲 - I'm Liz, by the way. - Sofi.
是过去时 It's past.
太快了 但是还可以 Too fast, but okay.
好 Yeah.
多优美的一个词啊 What a beautiful word.
没什么 它就是"我们过街吧" 很普通 Come on, it's "let's cross over." it's so ordinary.
不 那是种意大利语音的完美组合 No, it's the perfect combination of Italian sounds.
有着惆怅的"ah" 起伏的颤音 It's the wistful "ah," the rolling trill,
舒缓的"ess" the soothing "ess."
-这倒是真的 -我喜欢 - That's true. - l love it.
那好 我来教你个词 All right, let me teach you a word.
治疗师 Therapist.
-得了吧 -你得学点儿幽默感 - Come on. - Good. You gotta learn humor.
-才不是呢 -来吧 干杯 - lt's not. - Come on. Cheers.
-我们周二五点继续吗 -好的 - Shall we continue Tuesday at 5? - Yes.
-换另一瓶酒治疗吗 -当然 - With another bottle of the therapy? - Of course.
-你学的很好 莉兹 -谢谢 - You're doing very well, Liz. - Thank you.
你肯定觉得自己很有成就感 And you must be very polite with yourself...
当你学到什么新的东西时 ...when you learn something new.
没错 谢谢[意大利语] 我同意 Yes. Grazie, I agree.
但你的英语--你怎么做到的 But your English-- how are you even
想现在这样和我说话 talking to me like this right now?
我想你要多教我一点了 要比我教你的多 I think you're gonna teach me more than I teach you.
你的意大利语很棒 非常好 You have good Italian. Very good.
好吧 All right.
我很孤独 I am alone.
我很有负罪感 我在罗马都待了三个星期了 I feel so guilty. I've been in Rome for three weeks...
我所做的就是学意大利语和吃东西 ...all I've done is learn a few Italian words and eat.
你有负罪感 因为你是美国人 You feel guilty because you're American.
你不懂如何让自己享受生活 You don't know how to enjoy yourself.
-你说什么 -是真的 - I beg your pardon? - It's true.
美国人懂娱乐 但不懂享乐 Americans know entertainment, but don't know pleasure.
顺便说一句 This is Luca Spaghetti,
他是卢卡·斯帕盖蒂 by the way, you know.
你叫卢卡·斯帕盖蒂吗 Your name is Luca Spaghetti?
没错 这就是我的家姓 Yes, that's what our family is called.
我们自己发明的 我是认真的 听我说 We invented it. I'm serious. Listen to me.
想知道你的毛病吗 美国人 You want to know your problem? Americans.
你们工作太辛苦了 都精疲力竭了 You work too hard. You get burned out.
然后你回到家 穿着睡衣 Then you come home and spend the whole weekend
坐在电视机前度过整个周末 in your pajamas in front of the TV.
这说的倒是不假 That's not far off, actually.
但你们不懂享乐 But you don't know pleasure.
你们应该知道你们理应如此 You have to be told you've earned it.
你看广告上说 You see a commercial that says,
"米乐时间到"[知名酸奶品牌] "It's Miller time"...
然后你说"没错 我要去买个六盒装的" and you say, "that's right. Now I will go to buy a six-pack."
你喝了酸奶第二天醒来 And drink the whole thing and wake up the next morning
感觉还是一样糟 and you feel terrible.
但意大利人不需要被告知 But an Italian doesn't need to be told.
他走着旁边有标记显示"你今天该休息了" He walks by a sign that says, "you deserve a break today"...
那他会说"是的 我知道" and he says, "yeah, l know.
因此我决定中午的时候休息一下 That's why I'm planning on taking a break at noon...
去你家睡你老婆" to go over to your house and sleep with your wife."
我们管这叫"闲暇之乐" We call it "dolce far niente."
它是说无所事事的那种娴静 我们最擅长了 It means...the sweetness of doing nothing. We are masters of it.
他说的没错 他说... He's right. He says...
不能那样学意大利语 you can't learn Italian like this.
说一种语音你不仅要用的嘴 You don't speak the language just with your mouth,
你还要用你的手 speak it with your hands.
像这样吗 Like this?
算了 那是叫喊呢 Okay. It's yelling.
"这顿饭棒极了" 'That meal was excellent'
"糟透了" 'Suck it'
所有这些让我胃抽筋 All this gives me a stomachache.
"去你的" 'Screw you'
-我想那是我邻居洛伦索 - l think that's my neighbor Lorenzo.
另外一种说"去你的"的方法 Another way to say 'screw you'
无论如何 一开始我要说 So anyway, to start off l'd say....
打扰一下 Excuse me.
过来一下 Come here.
我们这桌要... 一大盘洋蓟 For the table...a big platter of artichoke alla giudia...
意大利熏火腿配甜瓜 prosciutto with melon...
茄子配熏乳酪 and eggplant with ricotta affumicata.
还要白汁培根意粉 Then spaghetti alla carbonara...
兔肉宽面 pappardelle with ragu of rabbit...
还有蛤蜊扁面 and linguini with clams.
罗马式牛肚 Then tripe alla romana...
和意式煎小牛肉火腿卷 and saltimbocca.
再要两升冈扎诺散装酒 And two more liters of the vino sfuso from Genzano.
谢谢 Thank you.
你成功了 真棒 You did it. Wow, yes.
莉兹·吉尔伯特 你已经成为罗马女人了 Liz Gilbert, you are a Roman woman now.
没有 有名无实而已 No, only honorary.
那才是真正的罗马女人 That is a real Roman woman.
是啊 有一堆外国朋友的罗马女人 Yeah, with a lot of international friends.
那块肉 我肯定一口吃掉 That one, I'd bite.
可能你和罗马词汇不同 Maybe you and Rome just have different words.
-词汇不同 -是啊 - Different words? - Yeah.
嗯 如果仔细想想的话 Yeah. It's like each city has a word,
似乎每个城市都有个专门的词汇 if you really think about it.
比如说 伦敦的词是什么 Like, what is the word for London?
-我觉得是乏味 -我同意 - l would say "stuffy." - l would agree with that.
斯德哥尔摩呢 What's the word for Stockholm?
开什么玩笑 肯定是适宜 Are you kidding? "Conform."
纽约呢 And New York?
野心勃勃 或者 脏兮兮 "Ambition" or "Soot."
罗马的词是什么 What's the word for Rome?
有点难说 It's kind of difficult to think about.
很经典的 It's classic.
色情 "sex."
没错 Of course.
那你的那个词是什么 莉兹 So, what's your word, Liz?
我很好奇 想不出来 I'm curious. I can't figure it out.
也许是 It might be....
最开始是女儿 我是个不错的女儿 It started as "daughter." I was good at that.
然后 And then...
妻子 这个我做得不怎么样 "wife." Not so good.
女朋友 "Girlfriend."
不怎么样 Not so good.
我的词是 作家 My word's "writer."
是 但这是你的职业 Yeah, but that's what you do.
而不是你是谁 对吧 That isn't who you are, no?
也许你是个正在寻找自己那个词的女人 Maybe you're a woman in search of her word.
嗨 苏菲 我是莉兹 我们去那不勒斯吧 Hey, Sofi, it's Liz. Let's go to Naples.
也许我的那个词是 披萨 Maybe my word is "pizza."
听着 女士 我才七岁 但我敢说 Listen, lady, I am only 7, but l can
你是个彻头彻尾的白痴 tell you're a complete moron...
因为我就是那不勒斯人 because I am from Naples.
我爱这里 不过乔凡尼说要小心 I love this place, but Giovanni told us to watch out.
他堂兄在一个博物馆里被抢了 His cousin got mugged here in a museum.
-真的假的 -注意那些摩托车 - What, are you serious? - Watch out for the scooter. Yeah.
我恋爱了 我爱上了我的披萨 I'm in love. I'm having a relationship with my pizza.
你看起来和你的披萨 You look like you're breaking up
分手了 怎么了 with the pizza. What's the matter?
我不能吃 I can't.
什么意思 你不能吃 What do you mean, you can't?
这可是那不勒斯披萨 This is pizza in Napoli.
好好吃那个披萨是你的道德使命 It is your moral imperative to eat and enjoy that pizza.
我想吃 可我重了 大概十磅 I want to, but I've gained, like, 10 pounds.
我是说 我长了 I mean, l've got this....
在这 这叫什么来着 哪个词来着 right here. What's it called? What's the word?
游泳圈 A muffin top.
我也有 I have one too.
我刚才把扣子解开 盯着它看来着 I unbuttoned my jeans like five minutes ago just looking at this.
问你个问题 Let me ask you a question.
这么多年来 每次你在男人面前 In all the years you've ever undressed
脱下衣服 in front of a gentleman....
-没有很多男人 -好吧 那 - Hasn't been that many. - All right, well...
他有没有让你离开过 has he ever asked you to leave?
-他有没有走出去过 走掉 -没有 - Has he ever walked out? Left? - No.
因为他不在乎 Because he doesn't care.
他和一个裸女同处一室 已经够幸运了 He's in a room with a naked girl. He's won the lottery.
我已经受够了控制食量 每天早上醒来 I'm so tired of saying no and then waking up in the morning...
仔细盘点昨天吃的每一样东西 and recalling every single thing I ate the day before.
仔细数我消耗的每一个卡路里 然后 Counting every calorie I consume so I know exactly...
带着同样多的自我厌恶去洗澡 how much self-loathing to take into the shower.
我讨厌这样 I'm going for it.
我并不想长胖 I have no interest in being obese.
但我不再内疚了 I'm just through with the guilt.
我要这样 我要吃完这个披萨 This is what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna finish this pizza...
然后我们去看足球比赛 and then we're gonna go watch the soccer game.
然后明天我们小约会一下 And tomorrow we're gonna go on a little date...
给自己买几条大点的牛仔裤 and buy ourselves some bigger jeans.
乔凡尼喜欢游泳圈 Giovanni likes a muffin.
好姑娘 Attagirl.
他说 你为谁而战 He's saying, "for whom are you playing?"
哈 为了谁 Per chi, for whom.
拉啊 拉啊 我在吸气 Pull, pull. I'm sucking it in.
用用你的瑞典肌肉 Put some Swedish muscle into this.
你觉得索菲亚·罗兰会遇到这种事吗 You think this happened to Sophia Loren?
就这样 差不多了 There it goes. Almost got it.
加油 加油 你都不使劲 Go, go, go. You're not trying.
快成功了 快成功了 我做到了 I've almost got it. I've almost got it. I did it.
很好看 你应该买下来 Oh, that's beautiful. You should get it.
为了谁 For whom?
为了你 莉兹 只为你自己 For you, Liz. Just for you.
不用 有大妈裤子我已经很开心了 No, I'm happy just with my big lady pants.
今天谢谢你 还有更衣室 Thanks for the day. And the leg room.
很好玩 It was fun.
我们去吃东西 你来吗 We're gonna go for food. You wanna come?
不 不用 我不想去 No. No, l'm good.
什么都不做的惬意 The sweetness of doing nothing.
求你 求你从地上起来 Please. Please get off the floor.
能不能请你 你能过来吗 Will you please just...? Will you come up here?
如果我们知道 What if we just acknowledge that we
我们的关系毁了 have a screwed-up relationship...
然后不管怎样还是坚持下来了 and we stick it out anyway?
如果我们接受经常吵架 We accept that we fight a lot...
几乎不做爱了的事实 and we hardly have sex anymore...
但还是不愿意失去彼此 but that we don't wanna live without each other.
这样我们就能一起过日子了 And that way we can spend our lives together...
悲惨 miserable...
但因为拥有彼此而幸福 but happy not to be apart.
亲爱的大卫 Dear David,
我们好久没交流过了 We haven't had any communication in a while...
这让我有时间思考 and it's given me time I needed to think.
记不记得你说我们应该悲惨地 Remember when you said we should live
一起生活 with each other and be unhappy...
这样就能幸福了 so we could be happy?
把它当作一种我爱你的誓言 Consider it a testimony to how much I love you...
我花了很长时间投入 that I spent so long pouring myself into that offer...
想让誓言实现 trying to make it work.
有一天 一个朋友带我 But a friend took me
去了世界上最神奇的地方 to the most amazing place the other day.
叫奥古斯顿 It's called the Augusteum.
奥古斯都大帝建了它来收藏遗迹 Octavian Augustus built it to house his remains.
野蛮人来了 他们摧毁了 When the barbarians came, they trashed
一切 包括奥古斯顿 it along with everything else.
伟大的奥古斯都 The great Augustus,
罗马第一个真正的皇帝 Rome's first true great emperor...
他怎么能想象 罗马 how could he have imagined that Rome...
和他所知道的全世界 the whole world, as far as he
有一天会成为断壁残垣 was concerned, would one day be in ruins?
黑暗时代 有人闯进来 During the dark ages, someone came in here
偷走了大帝的骨灰 and stole the emperor's ashes.
十二世纪时 In the 12th century,
这成为了卡洛林诺家族的一个要塞 it became a fortress of the Carolino family...
后来变成斗牛场 then a bullring.
再后来成了烟火仓库 They stored fireworks in here after that.
现在则是流浪汉的厕所 Nowadays, it's used as a bathroom for the homeless...
你最好注意脚下 so you better watch your step going down.
这里是罗马最安静 最寂寥的地方之一 It's one of the quietest and loneliest places in Rome.
城市已经在它周围成长了几个世纪 The city has grown up around it over centuries.
它就像一个珍贵的伤口 It feels like a precious wound...
像你不会放弃的心碎 like a heartbreak you won't let go of...
因为它伤得太完美了 because it hurts too good.
我喜欢乱 I like it messy.
我们都希望事物能保持原样 大卫 We all want things to stay the same, David.
我猜你的前任肯定是个天使 对吧 I guess the guy before me must've been some angel, huh?
安于活得悲惨 Settle for living in misery...
是因为我们害怕改变 because we're afraid of change,
害怕事物变成废墟 of things crumbling to ruins.
我环顾这里 看它经受的这些混乱 Then I looked around in this place, at the chaos it's endured...
这些改造 焚烧 掠夺 the way it's been adapted, burned, pillaged...
然后又找到了重新塑造自己的 then found a way to build itself
方式 然后我就释然了 back up again, and I was reassured.
也许我的生活还没有那么糟糕 Maybe my life hasn't been so chaotic.
世界就是这个样子而已 It's just the world that is...
需要小心的 只是逃脱这种生活的念头 and the only real trap is getting attached to any of it.
毁灭是种礼物 Ruin is a gift.
毁灭是通向变化的路途 Ruin is the road to transformation.
嗨 Hey.
可以走了吗 You ready?
可以 Yeah.
即使在这个永恒之城 Even in this eternal city,
奥古斯顿让我明白 the Augusteum showed me...
我们必须为无尽的变化浪潮 that we must always be prepared
做好准备 for endless waves of transformation.
比起绑在一起 我们都应该过得更好 Both of us deserve better than staying together...
不要害怕分开带来的伤害 because we're afraid we'll be destroyed if we don't.
我妈妈在填馅 陈面包 胡桃 给 My mother's stuffing. Stale bread, walnuts, got those.
给我点土豆好吗 Will you get me some more potatoes?
我总是在给你土豆 Oh, I'm always getting you more potatoes.
这是我的梦想 真正的美式感恩节 It's my dream, a real American Thanksgiving.
和我们的莉兹告别的完美方式 The perfect way to say goodbye to our Liz.
那 So...
-你这周就走了 -是的 - You leave this week, huh? - Yes.
你去哪 伊朗吗 And where are you going? Iran?
印度 India.
莉兹今晚给我们做一顿美式大餐 Liz is making us an American meal tonight.
-你没结婚 对吧 -没有 - You are not married, yeah? - No.
你朋友怎么回事 她是同性恋吗 What's wrong with your friend, is she a lesbian?
不是 妈妈 她不是同性恋 No, mama, she's not a lesbian.
而且她能听懂意大利语 And she understands ltalian.
在地球的另一端 她怎么才能 How's she going to find another husband and start a family...
找到下一任丈夫 组建家庭 when she's on the other side of the world?
如果男人说 我要旅行 If a man said, "I'm going to travel for
一年 认识各种各样的人 a year and meet wonderful people...."
可她不是男人 But she's not a man.
对女人来说 要觉得自己有选择的权利 It's more difficult for a woman to feel
难上加难 that she has the right to make choices.
-需要很大的勇气 -没错 - It takes a lot of courage. - Exactly.
你说是勇气 我说是傻气 You call it courage, I call it stupidity.
妈妈 别说了 Mama, enough.
我知道一堆人都同意你的观点 I know a number of people who would agree with you.
卢卡 Luca?
火鸡什么时候能准备好 What time will the turkey be ready?
火鸡 The turkey....
我还没解冻呢 I haven't defrosted it yet.
妈的 Oh, shit.
你只有一件事要做 还搞砸了 You only had one thing to do and you screwed it up.
我走神了 这太正常了 I was distracted! It can happen!
有这么多好吃的 Too much good food!
这么多女人 Too many women!
我就把火鸡忘了 And I forgot!
我们吃之前 每个人 Now, before we eat, everyone...
这是感恩节 我们要感恩 it is Thanksgiving, so let us give thanks.
-好 来吧 拉起手来 -好 - Yeah. Come on, join hands. - Okay.
我们只要说 我们 So we just say what we....
我们为了什么感谢上帝 What we thank God for tonight.
苏菲 从你开始怎么样 Sofi, why don't you start?
我因为你而感激 莉兹 I am grateful for you, liz...
你帮我热爱生活 for helping me appreciate life...
以及这种热爱带来的一切 with all that comes with it...
游泳圈和不开心的日子 muffin tops and bad times.
还有感谢乔凡尼 and for Giovanni...
让我感到 for making me feel...
被爱 充满安全感 loved and secure.
该朱利奥了 And Giulio.
我 我感谢我美满的家庭 Me, I'm grateful for my beautiful family.
我的两个女儿和我的妻子 My two little daughters and my wife.
我要谢谢主和圣母 I thank God and the Holy Virgin...
赐予我这个非常 非常特殊的一天 for this very, very special day.
还有这个美满的家庭 And for this beautiful family...
今天尤其庞大 that today is so much bigger.
非常庞大 Very much bigger.
为了这种新的庆祝习俗 I thank you all for
我谢谢你们所有人 this new custom of celebration.
还有莉兹的填馅劳动 And Liz's stuffing...
还有谢谢上帝 and God...
赐予我性感魅力 for my sexiness.
你呢 鲁菲纳 And you, Ruffina?
我感谢主 赐予我性感魅力 I thank God for my sexiness.
继续 乔凡尼 Go ahead. Giovanni.
我要谢谢主 I thank God for...
赐予我恐惧 fear...
因为人生第一次 because for the first time...
我害怕坐在我身旁这个人 I'm afraid the person next to me...
想要离去 will be the one who wants to leave.
莉兹呢 Liz?
这一切都让我觉得感激 Well, this all makes me so grateful.
和你们这些快乐的人在一起 Seeing all you happy people...
你们懂得爱彼此 照顾彼此 who know how to love each other and take care of each other.
看着这个我欣赏的 了不起的女人 I look at the amazing women I've met who I admire so much...
还有这些了不起的男人 照顾他的女人 and the great men, taking care of their women...
哄孩子上床睡觉 and putting their children to bed.
我很开心 I just feel happy...
因为能目睹这一切 并成为它的一部分 to see it and to be part of it.
我是世界上最幸运的女孩 I'm the luckiest girl in the world.
不错的早餐吧 It's a good breakfast, huh?
我把行李拿到你房间去 I will take this to your room.
已经开始了 It has already started.
-我睡着了 -是啊 真遗憾 - I fell asleep. - Yeah. Pity.
也许世界上唯一一个 Probably the only person in the world
在冥想中睡着的人就是你 who ever fell asleep during meditation.
-这通向冥想园 -古鲁在吗 - This leads to the meditation garden. - Is the Guru here?
她一直都在 She's always here.
我知道 但她是在这吗 I know, but is she "here" here?
她在纽约的修行所呢 She's at her ashram in New York.
可是我是从纽约到这来见她的 But l came from New York to see her here.
听起来像是她的小诡计 Sounds like one of her little tricks.
修行洞 The meditation cave.
一周七天全天开放 还带空调 It's open 24/7 and it's air-conditioned.
科瑞拉 Corella?
这是莉兹·吉尔伯特 This is Liz Gilbert.
你好 很高兴认识你 Hi. Nice to meet you.
我在沉默
你从哪搞到那牌子的 Where did you get that button?
书店有卖 They sell them in the bookstore.
这正是我要的 我需要 That is exactly what I need. I need...
这样的东西 我不倾听 something like that. Because I don't listen.
我从来不 I never have.
我妈以前叫我叽叽喳喳小姐 My mom used to call me little Miss chatty cathy...
因为我喜欢唠叨 我是唠叨鬼 because I just ramble. I am a rambler.
我现在就在唠叨了 对不起 I am rambling now. I'm sorry.
沉默是一种美妙的精神训练 Silence is a wonderful spiritual practice...
但如果科瑞拉能说话 她会 but if Corella could speak, she'd tell you
告诉你这比看起来困难 it's more challenging than it looks.
-你可能要过一段时间再试 -好 - You may wannt wait till you've been here for a while. - Okay.
谢谢 科瑞拉 我会转达给她的 Thank you, Corella. I'll be sure to tell her.
-她说什么 -不知道 - What did she say? - No idea.
换上你的工作服 Why don't you change into your work clothes.
我带你去歇瓦[无私服务] I'll take you to your Seva.
这是印度语 无私的奉献工作 It's a hindu word for "selfless devotional work."
-这的每个人都要做 -好 谢谢 - It's required of everyone who stays here. - Okay. Thank you.
这世界上还有什么 Is there anything in this world
比印度小男孩更苗条吗 skinnier than an lndian teenage boy?
-我是图丝 -我是莉兹 - I'm Tulsi. - Liz.
你从哪来 Where are you from?
邻镇 我父母在这 The next town. My parents have been
为导师工作好多年了 devotees of the Guru for many years.
我们在这过了很长时间 We spend a lot of time here.
但是 But...
他们想把我嫁掉 这是习俗 they are trying to marry me off. That's the custom.
-你不想这样 -绝对不想 糟透了 - That's not what you want? - No way. It sucks.
我想学心理 就像我们的 I want to study psychology, just as our
导师在大学学的那种 Guru did when she attended college.
比起同龄男孩 我更想和神在一起 I prefer to be with god than boys my age.
我家里没人理解我为什么到印度来 No one in my family understands my coming all the way to India.
你有没有过这种想法 Do you ever look at them and wonder,
我到底在这个家里干嘛 "What am I doing in this family?"
你绝对想象不到 You have no idea.
古鲁梵歌是古老的诗篇 The Gurugita is an ancient text
长一百八十二节 182 verses long.
在梵歌中 巴瓦娣女神请湿婆神告诉她 In it, the goddess Parvati is asking Shiva, or god...
世俗成就的秘密 for the secrets of fulfillment.
上面说 要实现转变 It's said to have transforming qualities.
我想冒昧地说一下 I would just like to take a risk here and say....
我实在不喜欢古鲁梵歌 Me and Guru Gita, we just do not get along.
-你不喜欢它什么 -什么也不喜欢 - What is it you have trouble with? - Everything.
太长 太无聊 我跟不上 It's long, it's tedious, I can't keep up...
而且我还莫名其妙地 and l get these insane anxieties
对我生活中的一切感到烦躁 about everything in my life...
我失去自我了 and l've lost my place.
能让你的情绪和生理反应这么强烈 Sounds like it has a positive effect
说明它起了很好的作用 if you're having such strong emotions and physical reactions.
继续坚持 You keep trying.
你选择结束婚姻生活真是让人敬佩 It is most commendable that you ended your marriage.
你现在是个自由快乐的女人了 You seem like such a happy, free person now.
我的前夫会说我是个自私的女人 I think my ex-husband would describe me as selfish.
你别这么垂头丧气的 You mustn't be angry with yourself or disappointed.
没人强迫你建立家庭 结婚生子 You don't have to make children or be married to have a family.
天哪 这里的蚊子个儿真大 Oh, man. they got mosquitoes here big enough
都能站直了啃鸡肉了 to stand flat-footed and screw a chicken.
我好崇拜你 I love you.
莉兹 你认识德州理查吗 Liz, have you met Richard from Texas?
你好 德州理查 Hello, Richard from Texas.
很高兴认识你 大胃王 Nice to meet you, groceries.
大胃王 Groceries?
没错 我听说你很能吃 Yeah. yeah, l heard you eating before l saw you.
我没见过谁一顿饭吃这么多的 I never seen anybody eat so much at one time.
看样子你很享受做大胃王啊 You sure do enjoy your groceries.
今天真的很累了 You know, it's been a rough day,
你们继续 and if no one takes it personally
我去别处安安静静地吃完这顿饭 I'm going to take my large meal some place else to eat it in silence.
别走 你在这吃吧 我吃完了 Oh, no, stay. I'm done.
看来这个上午 Looked like you were working through
你过得很不爽啊 some pretty rough stuff this morning.
和前夫有关吗 Stuff with your ex-husband?
我也离过婚 I got an ex-wife.
我的前妻希望我改名叫死混球 She thinks I changed my name to "motherfucker."
我 I...
来这之前我在罗马住了一段时间 I just spent some time in Rome
然后来到这里感觉很舒服 and I came here feeling so great.
在古鲁之地 And now here I am, at the source
我感觉自己与世隔绝了 and l feel more disconnected than ever.
你为什么要来 Why'd you come here?
我只想得到内心的宁静 I just want some peace.
宁静 Peace?
那你应该去城堡里 大胃王 You wanna get to the castle, groceries,
从河里游过去 you got to swim the moat.
这些你都吃了吧 你可以的 Here, you can finish that. I know you can.
好了 Okay.
清空思绪 Simply empty your mind.
呼吸 Breathe.
明年我要做什么呢 What am l going to do when this year is over?
我要住哪里 Where am I going to live?
可能会去芝加哥 Well, maybe Chicago.
对了 我可以盖一间禅房 Oh, my god. I could build a meditation room...
不要胡思乱想 No. stop thinking.
怎么这么难 Why is this so hard?
该死的科瑞拉 她是怎么做到的 Screw you, Corella. how the hell does she do this?
她长的可真像特蕾莎修女 She looks like frigging Mother Teresa.
神啊 杀了我吧 Oh, my god, kill me.
-游过去了吗 -闭嘴 - Who's in the moat today? - Shut up.
和大个鳄鱼搏斗了 Sounds like you wrestled some big-ass crocs.
你听好 既然你智慧过人 You know what? if you're so goddamn smart,
你还来这干嘛 what are you doing here?
你在这个地方自然就充满智慧 If you're here, it makes you smart already.
你想聊聊关于... Do you wanna talk about what...?
不 不必了 谢谢 No, not to you. thank you. I actually do not, thank you.
这里只有我一个人 I'm the only one here.
咱们早晚得聊 you're gonna talk about it sooner or later.
在这我没法专心 I cannot focus in there.
我现在想的都是盖禅房 怎么装饰 All I think about is my meditation room and how to decorate.
你胡言乱语什么呢 Are you shitting me?
你没病吧 Are you kidding me?
心即是禅房 大胃王 如何装饰 The meditation room is within, groceries. decorate that.
你一直这样自欺欺人吗 Do you always talk in bumper sticker?
是的 还有件事 I do, and here's another one.
凡事要仔细考虑 You have to learn to select your thoughts
就跟你每天选择要穿什么衣服一样 the way you select your clothes every day.
这种能力可以培养的 That's a power you can cultivate.
你来这是为了控制自己的生活 You wanna come here and control your life so bad,
用心想想 work on the mind.
那才是你要做的事 That's the only thing you should control.
如果你还是毫无头绪 一切都是白费 If you can't master your thoughts, you're in trouble.
我在努力 I am trying.
没错 这就是你的症结所在 Yeah, hello, that's the damn problem.
别费劲了 认输吧 Stop trying. surrender.
到公园去 坐在那边好好想想 Go out into the garden and just sit there and still your mind
想想到底是怎么了 and you watch what happens.
你为什么就不看开一点呢 Why don't you just let it be?
有没有人说你长的像詹姆斯·泰勒 Has anyone ever told you you look like James Taylor?
习惯了 Every day.
确实很像 God, he really does.
每天我都做同样的祈祷 My prayers were always the same.
上帝啊 求求你 "Please, god, please.
打开我的心 指引我 Open my heart, send me a sign
因你我都了解 我并非完美 because we both know I ain't the sharpest tool in the shed."
瞧瞧 游移在加尔各答市的女人 Look at you, floating through Calcutta.
看来你用心沉思了 Looks like you had a great meditation.
我可能感染上疟疾了 I probably have malaria now.
那些红肿会消失的 The bites will go away.
最终万物都会消失的 Eventually everything goes away.
祈祷了吗 大胃王 祈求指引了没 You ever done that, groceries? Begged for a sign?
很耳熟 That sounds vaguely familiar.
许愿时要小心 有可能会实现 Be careful what you wish for. you just might get it.
你这人是怎么回事 What is your problem?
情路不顺吗 Did you fall in love with the wrong woman or something?
等一下 吉尔伯特小姐 Excuse me, miss Gilbert.
有电话找你 You have a phone call.
古鲁梵歌修行得如何了 How's the Gurugita treating you?
还好 你也会喜欢的 Fine. you'd like her.
你收到我的邮件了吗 Did you get my e-mail?
收到了 很抱歉没及时给你回复 Yeah. I'm sorry I didn't call sooner.
为什么 Why didn't you?
只有这样才能和你保持联系 Because if I didn't respond we were still having a conversation.
还能找到你 I was still in it.
抱歉 我们闹得很不愉快 I'm sorry. we were just bad timing.
我只是想过得轻松些 I just wanted things to be easy.
生活轻松大家都相安无事 We were good when things were easy.
如今都无所谓了 It's not that I need "easy" right now.
我只是不知道遇到困难该怎么办 I just can't have "so hard."
听上去你过得错 Well, you sound good.
更坚强了 Stronger.
你也是 So do you.
是啊 我是个演员 莉兹 Yeah, well, I'm an actor, Liz.
我争取到一个角色 I got a part.
虽然不是百老汇的剧 不过很棒 It's off-broadway, but it's pretty cool.
我也为你开心 I'm happy for you.
好了 All right.
后会有期 Well, I'll see you around, kid.
你在这儿啊 Check you out.
从未见你如此专心啊 I have never seen you so focused.
去喝一杯大拇指吧 You need a Thums Up.
不行 别用嘴碰瓶子 No, no. No lips on the bottle.
在印度 First rule in India
首要原则就是别碰任何东西 除了你自己 is never touch anything but yourself.
哇哦 这个可比可乐甜多了 Oh, good god. that's, like, five times sweeter than coke.
里面可能放了甲基安非他命 I think it might have methamphetamines in it.
希望如此 We can only hope.
我知道你心情很差 I know you feel awful.
你的生活在改变 But your life's changing.
这不是件坏事 That's not a bad thing.
你现在最适合呆在这儿 And you're in the perfect place for it.
充满慈悲的地方 Surrounded by grace.
我以为我已经放下他了 可是 I thought I was over him, but
我依然爱着他 I love him.
不得了 Big deal.
你爱上某人了 So you fell in love with someone.
我很想他 I really miss him.
那就想啊 So miss him.
想他的时候就把爱送给他 Send him some light and love every time you think of him,
然后作罢 then drop it.
假如你清除内心那块现在用来痴恋那家伙 You know, if you could clear out all that space in your mind
和你失败婚姻的空间 that you're using to obsess over this guy
你心里讲留下一个空白 一个开放的地方 一个门洞 and your failed marriage, you'd have a vacuum with a doorway.
你猜宇宙会怎么处理这个门洞 And you know what the universe would do with that doorway?
迅速出动 神会迅速出动 Rush in. God would rush in.
让你的心装满超越想象的爱 Fill you with more love than you ever dreamed of. man.
大胃王 Groceries.
我想有一天你会爱上整个世界 I think you have the capacity someday to love the whole world.
那边卖的是什么 What do they sell over there?
象头神甘内什 辟邪的 Ganesh. remover of obstacles.
我要买很多个 I'm gonna need a lot of these.
说到象 这个地方有一头离群象 Speaking of elephants, there's a rogue
四处游荡 elephant on the loose in the area.
脸上有狂欢节标记 He was with carnival.
据说它行踪不定 性格诡异 They say he is very, very unpredictable and volatile.
你这么说她反而更感兴趣 That just makes him more attractive to her.
你怎么什么都知道 How'd you get to be so smart?
修炼到你这样很难吧 I'll bet it was the hard way.
别转移话题 Don't change the subject.
让整个悲痛过去 还得花多少时间 Well, when is this grieving phase going to pass?
难道你想要一个能在月历上圈起来的确切日期 You want a day on a calendar you can circle?
你能帮我吗 Can you give me one?
不能 你得去干活 No. You got to do the work.
禅坐 还有干活 Meditate and go to Seva
最重要的是每天去听听声乐 and most important, get your butt down to the geet every morning
慢慢地就好了 and something'll change.
我就是领悟不透古鲁梵语 I just cannot get through the Guru Gita.
我无法全心投入 I can't find that feeling of devotion.
好吧 有爱才会投入 Okay. Devotion's love.
想想你愿为之奉献的人或事 Pick somebody or something you wanna devote it to.
不一定要选古鲁 对她来说都一样 It doesn't have to be the Guru. It's all the same to her.
这是你自己的事 This is about you.
能跟你说件事吗 Can l tell you something, groceries?
你有相当严重的控制问题 You got some serious control issues.
这么明显 Is it obvious?
好了 理查德 我不要你继续在我脑子里溜达 All right, Richard, get out from inside my head now.
记得把门关上 Shut the door.
-就是他吗 -是他 - That's him? - That's him.
-面目可憎的男人 -不是啊 很可爱 - He's hideous. - No, he's not. he's cute.
他是射手座的 He's a sagittarius.
他现在在德里学计算机编程 He studies computer programming in Delhi.
成绩不错 He has very good grades.
他家很有钱 And his family is very, very wealthy.
他肯定是个自负且大男子主义的男人 He will be very conceited and dictatorial.
17岁之后我的人生就不是自己的了 My life is over at 17.
图丝 Tulsi.
女士们 先生们 欢迎莉兹还有史蒂芬 Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the dance floor
这对新婚夫妻来跳第一支舞 for their very first couples dance, liz and stephen.
我的家人 My people.
-准备好了吗 -准备好了 - Are you ready? - I'm ready.
-你真美 -谢谢 - You look beautiful. - Thank you.
我娶了一位可人儿 I married a hottie.
这是什么音乐 这不是我们的曲子 What is that? that's not our song.
是的 不是 No, it is not.
亲爱的 这曲子不是我们选的那个 Baby, that's not our song.
-肯定不是 -大家都在看我们呢 - Definitely not. - Everybody's looking at us.
没事 我去跟那个人说 我来搞定 It's okay. I'm gonna go talk to the guy. It's gonna be fine.
-我跟你说过我会跳 -就这么搞定吗 - I told you I'd get it. - This is taking care of it?
我还没送你结婚礼物 I owe you a wedding gift.
我不知道送什么合适 I didn't know what was appropriate.
我想告诉你我... I wanted to tell you l've been...
要把我的古鲁梵歌送给你 dedicating my Gurugita to you.
想象你幸福让我领悟到梵歌的意义 Imagining you happy is what got me through it.
是什么样子的 What did it look like
我开心吗 when I was happy?
我想象你和瑞修 I imagine you and Rijul
微笑着看着彼此 smiling and looking at each other with
眼神充满爱 love and kindness.
感觉很真实 It seemed very real.
谢谢你 莉兹 Thank you so much, Liz.
我也希望是这样 That helps me to believe it as well.
在回忆自己的婚礼吗 Thinking about your own wedding?
我也是 Yeah, me too
婚礼上快乐的事 The funny thing about weddings,
最后想到自己 you end up thinking about yourself.
你们的婚礼很热闹 Did you throw yourself a big shindig?
你穿着白色的大宽松裙 Big, white, floppy dress?
婚礼的一切都是我的操办的 Yep. I arranged it all.
一切由我做主 Nobody forced me into anything.
如今你无法原谅自己 Yeah. and now you can't forgive yourself.
说实话 我一直在等他原谅我 Honestly, I'm waiting for him to forgive me.
释怀我的所作所为 To release me.
等他的原谅简直是在浪费时间 Waiting for him to forgive you is a damn waste of time, groceries.
自己原谅自己吧 Forgive yourself.
说得容易 It's not that easy.
晚安 理查 Good night, Richard.
-跟我来 -我累了 - Follow me. - I'm tired.
马上过来 Get your butt up here.
这是个悲伤的故事 It's not a pretty story
却很经典 but it's pretty classic.
夹杂着酒精 毒品 不负责任地背叛 Too much alcohol, too many drugs, too much mindless cheating.
遗憾 Just regret.
许多遗憾 Ocean of regret.
我失去了一切 I lost everything.
我的自尊 我的工作 My pride, my job.
还有我的家庭 My family.
我失去了家庭 I lost my family.
有一天下班之后 One day after work,
我去了酒吧 喝得烂醉 I stopped off at a bar and I got shitfaced.
那时的我和你很像 I was a lot like you, you know.
我...想了很多 我觉得 I was just...I don't know. I thought too much, I felt too....
我希望自己是麻木的 I wanted to feel nothing.
我应该叫出租车的 可我没有 I should've called a cab, but I didn't.
我开车回家 I just got in my car and l drove home.
我的小儿子... My little boy....
那时他才8岁 He was 8 years old at the time.
他拿着玩具车坐在车库前 He was sitting in the driveway with his little hot wheels,
等着他那失败 穷困的酒鬼爸爸 waiting for his lost...drunk, miserable dad
回家和他玩 to come home and play with him.
我没看见他 I didn't see him.
我没有 我开车冲进车库 I didn't. I just roared into that
没有看到我的小儿子 driveway and I didn't see my little boy.
可是他 But he...no, he....
他躲开了 He got out of the way.
每次我开车回家他都知道要躲远点 He was used to getting out of the way when I was around.
而我 我... And I...you know, I don't...
我什么都记不得了 I don't know. I don't remember a thing.
转天我醒来 他们都走了 Next day, I woke up and they were gone.
我的妻子在屋里看见这一切发生 My wife had been watching what happened out the window.
她不想... She just wasn't gonna....
她不想再过这样的生活 She just wasn't gonna do it anymore.
所以 So....
他现在已经18岁了 He's 18 now.
考上了大学 他很聪明 He's in school and, oh, god, he's so smart.
他很逗人喜欢 God, he's so funny and he's....
很乖 He's so sweet.
我错过了一切 I missed it all.
我没有尽到父亲的责任 I missed my son's growing up. just missed it.
你了解吗 Okay?
来 Come here.
做个约定 Here's the deal.
原谅了自己才能离开这里 You're gonna stay here till you forgive yourself.
明白吗 You hear me?
一切都会好起来的 Everything else will take care of itself.
这里是你忏悔的地方吗 Is this where you forgave yourself?
我一直在努力 伊莉莎白 I'm trying, Elizabeth.
我在努力 I am trying.
我觉得咱们婚礼上乐队应该放的是这首歌 I believe this is the song they were supposed to play at our wedding.
我爱过你 史蒂芬 I did love you, Stephen.
我知道 I know.
可我还爱着你 But I still love you.
那就爱吧 So love me.
我想你 But I miss you.
那就想吧 So miss me.
想我时就把爱送给我 Send me love and light every time you think of me
然后释放掉 then drop it.
爱不会一直存在的 It won't last forever.
世上无永恒 Nothing does.
-再见 -再见 理查 - Bye-bye. - Goodbye, Mr. Richard.
我会想你的 I'll see you.
你走了 以后谁教训我呢 Now that you're going, who is gonna kick my ass every day?
我也希望我能呆到暴风把我卷走 Oh, I'd stay till a monsoon swept me away if I could. Bye-bye.
你还得出钱修房子 But you've got bills to pay and houses to build.
你会努力工作 You just keep doing the work and
好好生活吧 move on with your life, will you?
你都要上飞机了还不忘嘱咐我 The man is getting on a plane and you're still bossing me.
好好生活 用驱蚊水 Move on, use mosquito repellent and
记不住了 你说的事我都写下来了 I don't know. there were some other things. i wrote them down.
回德克萨斯吧 理查 Go back to Texas, Richard.
因为站在这里也不会让我漂亮些 Well, I ain't getting any prettier standing here.
我走了 So I'm off.
嘿 大胃王 Hey, groceries.
重新相信爱情吧 Believe in love again.
莉兹 莉兹 我今天取下徽章了 Liz. Liz, I've just taken my badge off today.
我做得很好 四周沉默不语 超级无聊 I've done so well. Four weeks of silence. It was so dull.
但是你知道吗 这可就跟整容似的 But you know, it's like a facelift because your face...
觉得自己的脸放松了 you know, just relaxes and your
咽喉也舒服了 简直是大收获 throat just drops down. It's a bargain.
我们有好多话要说 We've got so much to catch up on.
沉默状态中 I am in SILENCE
天哪 这可是好事 你会收获很多的 Oh, golly. Good for you. You will get so much out of that.
你的咽喉也会感觉神清气爽的 And your throat will look amazing as well.
不好意思 伊莉莎白 Excuse me, Elizabeth.
想请你饭后去志愿者办公室报到 They're asking you to report to the seva office after dinner...
如果你不介意的话 if you don't mind.
我们要把你从地面清洁组里选出来 We're taking you off the floor-scrubbing team.
明天有来自世界各地的50位志愿者 There are about 50 devotees arriving
来这里做为期10天的道场学习 tomorrow from all over the world...
希望届时由你担当主招待 for a 10-day retreat and we'd like you to be the key hostess.
这段时间你不用参与沉默冥想的活动 We ask that you don't take part during the meditations.
需要由你照看大家 We need you to watch over the flock,
确保每一个人都安好 make sure everyone is all right.
做这种工作的人总被称为好看不中用 We call the person who does this job little suzy creamcheese.
你的主要任务就是温和有礼地保持微笑 You need to be social and bubbly and smiling all the time.
夫人 Madam...
听您差遣 I'm your girl.
大家好 我叫伊莉莎白 Hello my name is Elizabeth
请在这附近找到您的行李箱 So just find your suitcase, it should be around here somewhere...
然后从那条路去您的房间 and then head down the path to your room.
印度之旅的神圣意义归根结底就是一句话 So the holy truth of the whole aventure here in India, is in one line,
上帝与你同在 God dwells within you as you.
上帝并没有兴趣去观览 God's not interested in watching a performance...
信教的人长什么样 做什么事 of how a spiritual person looks and behaves.
或者那个渐渐浮现在镜头之中 The quiet girl who glides silently through the place...
带着温柔美好笑容的安静姑娘 她是谁 with a gentle, ethereal smile, who is that person?
是圣玛丽等待应门的英格丽·褒曼 不是我 That's Ingrid Bergman in the bells of St. Mary's, not me.
但是上帝与我同在 God dwells within me as me.
老四赖爷 主营油漆与雕木业务 Ketut Liyer Painter and wood carvings.
这孩子被恶魔折磨 Child tormented by demon.
看上去是因为到了出牙期 It looks like teething.
还不是一回事 Same thing.
该你了 Your turn.
你好 赖爷 Hello, Ketut.
很高兴见到了 I'm very happy to meet you.
你是个世界的旅人 You are a world traveler.
不 大约一年前我就来找过你 No, I came to see you about a year ago.
-是加利福尼亚那个姑娘吗 -不 是纽约那个 - You girl from California? - No, I girl from New York.
不记得了 Don't remember.
当时你说我应该回到巴厘岛 Well, you told me I should come back here to Bali.
你说我可以来帮你练习英语 You said I could help you with your English...
然后你会教我一些你所知的事 and you would teach me the things that you know.
你给了我这个 You gave me this.
你看 Okay.
是你 是你 我记得你 You. You. I remember you.
-太好了 -你是纽约那个愁眉苦脸的姑娘 - Oh, good. - You sad girl from New York.
-没错 -你是小莉 你回来了 - Yes. - You Liss. You came back.
-我回来了 -没错 是你 - I came back. - You, you, you.
是我 是我 Me, me, me.
好久没见了 So long ago we meet.
上次你来的时候 满脸愁容 满心忧虑 Last time, you have too much worry, too much sorrow.
上次你来的时候 看上去就像个老年怨妇 Last time, you look like sad old woman.
现在你美多了 Now you pretty.
-为什么变化这么大 -这个... - Why so different? - Well...
发生了太多事 真的 A lot of things, really.
我在罗马待了四个月 享尽美食 But I was in Rome for four months, just feeding myself...
后来我又去了印度的道场 and then I went to live at an ashram in India.
现在我们又见面了 Now, we put together.
没错 所以我才回到这里 Exactly. That's why I'm here.
赖爷很高兴你回来 Ketut good for that.
你给他吃啥灵丹妙药了 What'd you give him?
你还想让我帮你训练英语吗 Do you still want me to help you with your English?
英语的事下来再说 小莉 English later, Liss.
首先谈更重要的事 First, better idea.
这些东西很有年头了吧 How old are these?
我祖父留下的 是很重要的符咒 From grandfather. Very important spells.
还有颂歌 疗法等 Also mantras, cures.
几千年积累下来的财富 Thousand years' worth.
我所知所能的一切 都在这里 All I have, all l know, right here.
你为我复制一份吧 You copy for me?
当然可以 我可以把这些拿去城里 Absolutely. I can go to town and take these--
不 你不能带走 No. You don't take.
你用这个誊写更好些 小莉 You copy here, better, Liss.
我得打个盹休息下 我毕竟老了 I take a nap now. I very old.
你有多大年纪了 赖爷 How old are you, Ketut?
101岁 One hundred and one...
也许是64岁吧 ...or maybe 64.
不记得了 Don't remember.
估计我这辈子都抄不完吧 This is gonna take me the rest of my life.
他可以让你变得美丽 找到爱人 He make you pretty, find you husband,
你要为他继续抄下去 you work hard for him.
我来这儿的原因刚好相反 That's exactly opposite of why I'm here.
每个人都需要爱人 Everybody need husband.
你愿意给我那杯水吗 Would you mind getting me a glass of water, please?
不 No.
好吧 你接着抄 我去给你拿 Fine. Keep making copies. I get water.
莉兹 巴厘岛人崇信 So, Liz, the Balinese believe that
巴厘岛是宇宙的中心 Bali's the center of the universe.
而我们正处于巴厘岛的中心 And here we are in the center of bali.
你有一件卧室 一处鱼塘 You got the one bedroom, got your fish pond.
还有自己的冥想殿 You got your own meditation temple.
自从巴厘岛爆炸案后 旅游业不景气 I tell you, since the bombing, tourism's been way down...
所以我能够以很便宜的价格 ...so I can give you this place at a very,
把这地方给你 very good price right now.
真是天上人间 Paradise.
-我就要它了 -巴厘岛的人们明白 - I'll take it. - People in Bali understand...
要得到长久幸福 必须随时随地 ...in order to stay happy, must always know where you are...
了解自己的所在 ...every moment.
这个地方出于绝妙的平衡之中 Right here is perfect balance.
正是天地交汇之处 Right at meeting of heaven and earth.
没有太多神学因素 也没有太多人性私欲 Not too much god, not too much selfish.
否则生命就会过于疯狂 Otherwise, life too crazy.
你若失去这种平衡 就会失去力量 You lose balance, you lose power.
早晨你可以做在印度学到的冥想 In morning, you do meditation from India.
投入严肃的精神 Serious. Very serious.
白天你可以尽情享受巴厘风光 In day, you enjoy Bali.
到了下午 你就来见我 Then in afternoon, come see me.
一日将尽的时候 你做一种新的冥想 End of day, you do new meditation.
很简单的 Very simple.
只需要静坐着微笑 Sit in silence and smile.
我已经感觉到平衡了 I feel balanced already.
没有这么简单 小莉 Not so easy, Liss.
脸上挂着笑 心里带着笑 Smile with face. Smile with mind.
甚至五脏六腑也带着笑意 Even smile in liver.
下来再见了 小钝吻鳄 See you later, alligator.
天哪 Oh, god.
-你还好吗 -你瞎了吗 - Are you all right? - Are you blind?
-对不起 让我带你去看医生 -我没事 我只是... - Please, let me take you to a doctor. - I'm fine. I just--
看上去很糟糕 It looks bad.
很糟糕 小莉 Very bad, Liss.
-怎么回事 -有个疯子把我从路上撞出去了 - What happen? - This idiot ran me off the road.
一个男人吗 很富有吗 A man? He rich?
这伤口有些棘手 This very hot.
-你需要治疗 -你在这儿 你是巫医 - You need healer. - I have you. You're a medicine man.
-不 你需要大姐 -没错 - No. You need Wayan. - Yeah.
佳木汤药 喝这个比吃抗生素还有效 Jamu. Drink this. Better than antibiotic.
她也让你喝这个吗 She make you drink this?
-我叫莉兹 你呢 -图蒂 - My name's liz. What's yours? - Tutti.
很高兴见到你 图蒂 Nice to meet you, Tutti.
-你结婚了吗 -没有 - Are you married? - No.
你确定吗 一次都没有结过 You sure? Not even once?
好吧 有过那么一次 Okay, well, there was this one time...
但是每次我告诉巴厘的人我离过婚 ...but I find when I tell people in
他们很不能接受 Bali that I'm divorced, it upsets them.
我也离过婚 Me too, divorce.
离婚使人悲伤 被人鄙弃 Divorce make you sad and make you an outcast.
你很久没有性生活了 亲爱的 You have no sex for a long time, baby.
我从你膝盖都能看出来 I can tell by your knee.
软骨部分很干燥 The cartilage very dry.
只有性爱刺激的荷尔蒙能润滑这里 Hormones from sex lubricate joint.
-好吧 -我为你祈祷 - Okay. - I pray for you.
苦难的姐妹 We sisters.
亚美尼亚 Armenia!
亚美尼亚来自巴西 Armenia from Brazil.
亚美尼亚 这是来自纽约的莉兹 Armenia, this is Liz from New York.
-你好 -很高兴见到你 莉兹 - Hi. - Lovely to meet you, Liz.
这次有时间用香蕉根做头发护理吗 Do you have time for a banana root hair treatment?
-当然 -这会让头发秀长有光泽 - Yes, of course. - It makes the hair long and lustrous.
就像1975的雪儿·希卡一样 Like cher circa 1975.
你有合适的漂亮裙子吗 Do you have a nice dress?
就一套 One.
今晚穿上到海滨的棚屋来吧 Put it on tonight, come to the beach shack.
我把你介绍给大家 移民和本地人 I'll introduce you to everyone. The expats, the locals.
你得跳支舞 你会喜欢的 You'll dance. You will love it.
恐怕不行 我腿上有伤没法跳舞 Oh, no, I don't think I can dance with my leg like this.
你肯定能跳 腿不会影响的 Of course you can. Leg no problem.
到时候你就知道了 You see.
那你一定得来了 Now you have to come.
你好 能给我来一杯 Hi. Could I get a tequila on the
龙舌兰混合莱姆酒吗 rocks with a lot of lime, please?
马上拿来 Coming right up.
我能请你喝一杯吗 Can l buy you a drink?
不 谢谢 我自己很好 No, thank you, I'm fine.
我...我差点害死你 I-- I almost killed you.
我对此感到很抱歉 真的 I am sorry for that, really.
-你好 -你好 - Hello. - Hi.
我很抱歉 真的 I'm sorry, really.
真的 Yeah.
我不该在这时候笑 但是我觉得很神奇 I'm sorry I'm laughing, but it's amazing.
我当时在车上听的就是这首歌 I was actually listening to this song
然后磁带突然出错了 in the car when the tape jumped.
我伸手去调磁带 然后就把你撞到路边去了 And I leaned over to fix it and I ran you off the road.
是你叫他们放这首歌吗 Did you tell them to play it?
不不不 我给他们做了混音带 No, no, no. I make them mixtapes.
大部分是巴西音乐 Mostly brazilian music.
但是我也很喜欢菲尔·科林斯还有空气补给乐队 But I'm also very much into Phil Collins and Air Supply.
你实在不该这么大声说这个 You really shouldn't say things like that out loud.
莉兹 Liz!
-嗨 -看来你已经跟菲利普认识了 - Hi. - Oh, I see you've already met Felipe.
当然该认识 两个离异户 共同点够多的 Oh, of course. Two sad divorces. You have so much in common.
我给你物色了绝配的男人 I have the perfect man for you.
谈个恋爱吧 Just a little love affair.
在巴厘岛 人人都会坠入爱河 Everyone has a little love affair in Bali.
他很迷人吧 他叫伊恩 Isn't he charming? Lan.
跟斯汀长得挺像的吧 Doesn't he look like Sting?
对了 我也做了盘很赞的斯汀的混音带 Oh, yeah. I made a very good mixtape of sting.
你该去跟他跳支舞 You should dance with him.
我牵着你 小心 我牵着你 Got you. Come on, I got you.
明天一定会痛死的 That's gonna hurt tomorrow.
你知道吗 All right. You know what?
现在正好 我们游泳吧 That is it. We are going swimming.
我没有带我的游泳衣...我... No, I don't even have my-- I--
你没有穿...你没... You don't have your-- you don't--
你这么赤条条的 You're so naked.
对 我就是赤条条的 Yeah, I'm naked.
亚美尼亚说每个人都该谈场恋爱 Armenia says everyone should have a love affair.
这就是巴厘岛 人人都该在巴厘岛坠入爱河 This is Bali. Everyone should have a love affair in Bali.
没错 但是 Yeah, but--
天哪 不不不 Oh, god. No, no, no.
-恋爱是很美好的事 -我知道 我只是... - Love affairs are awesome, dude. - They are. I just--
15年前我会跟你约会 I dated you 15 years ago.
6个月前我也会跟你约会 And I dated you six months ago.
我要走了 So I'm gonna go.
不是吧 你说真的 你要走了吗 You're not-- you're really-- you're going.
但你真的很帅 But you're cute.
我觉得我长得不赖 I think I look good.
等等 Wait a minute.
抱歉 这个 Oh, sorry. Here.
-谢谢 -需要载你一程吗 - Thank you. - Do you need a ride?
这样我不会再撞到你了 That way I won't run you over again.
早上好 Hello.
-几点了 -早上5点 - What time is it? - Five a.m.
你在派对上玩疯了 Oh, you party hard.
真的 You really do.
谢谢你把我... Thank you for....
-载回来 -对 - The ride? - Yeah.
不用谢 需要我帮你抬自行车吗 You're very welcome. Need help with the bicycle?
你留着吧 You keep it.
我留着 但是它还有篮子 Keep it? But it has a basket.
也还有铃铛 It also has a bell.
下午好 过得怎样 Good afternoon. How are you?
你在这儿干嘛 What are you doing here?
我给你带了大姐最出名的解酒药 Well, I've brought you Wayan's famous hangover cure...
因为你昨晚喝得有点多 because you drank a little bit too much last night.
给你 很可口 你能看出来 And here it is. Very delicious, as you can see...
也很好喝 and very tasty.
你养成直接闯入他人住宅的习惯了吗 Do you make it a habit of walking into people's houses?
你养成睡觉不关大门的习惯了吗 Do you make it a habit of sleeping with your front door open?
有电话 稍等 It's a call. Moment.
你好 亲爱的 过得怎样 Hello, darling. How are you?
咖啡机不能用了 Can't get the coffee machine to work.
好吧 给你说了无数遍了 很简单的 Okay. I've told you 50 times. It's very easy.
你换上过滤器 加入咖啡豆 You change the filter, you add the coffee...
再加入水就可以了 你怎么考上大学的 you add water and that's it. How did you get into college?
怎么才能做得像你那么好 How do I make it like you?
听着 亲爱的 Listen, I've been making coffee...
我已经做了40年的咖啡了 darling, for 40 years, so you have
你要对自己有点耐心 好吗 to be patient with yourself. All right?
好吧 那你现在过得如何 Okay. So, what's up with you?
没什么大事 现在不方便聊天 Nothing. I just can't talk right now.
哎哟 身边有女人 Holy shit. You're with a girl.
-我要挂了 -那女人是谁 火辣不 - I have to go. - Who is she? Is she hot?
-天哪 她很性感 -老爸 如果你挂我电话 - Jesus, she's hot. - Dad, if you hang up...
我待会儿就打电话来让你在女人面前难堪 I'll call back and embarrass you in front of your girl.
老爸 别挂... Dad, don't--
亲爱的 你说了不少个"亲爱的" That's a lot of "darlings," darling.
没错 那个"亲爱的"是我儿子 Yeah. That darling was my son.
我在所有孩子小的时候都叫他们"亲爱的" I've called all my children "darling" since they were little.
后来有段时间这称谓又在小孩和宠物之间混淆 Then there was a moment that between the pets and the children...
所以我叫每个人"亲爱的" I was confused, so I called everybody "darling."
好吧 你需要休息 Okay, you need to rest.
这是我的电话和地址 Here is my number and my address.
我把它留在桌上 I'm gonna leave it here on the table,
如果你需要导游的话就找我 in case you need a tour guide.
我是导游 A tour guide.
还有 拜托你喝了药 And please, drink that up,
这会对你很有帮助的 because it's gonna help you a big deal.
因为你看上去真的... Because you really look....
-很迷糊 -很迷人 - Ravishing? - Astonishing.
-快走吧 拜托 -好 记得喝药 - Go away. Please. - Okay. Drink it up.
会很有效的 It's gonna be helpful.
嘿 导游先生 Hey, Mr. Tour guide.
我们能先喝杯咖啡吗 Can we start with a coffee?
当然 Okay.
这些是什么 What are these?
红毛丹果 很好吃的 These are rambutan. They're delicious.
像是橙子和李子杂交出来的 要试试吗 It's like an orange made love to a plum. Would you like some?
你这么形容的话 我要试试 谢谢 When you put it that way, yes, thank you.
不好意思 Excuse me.
那个是什么 What is that?
不不不 No, no, no.
他们尝起来一股臭脚丫子味 They taste like dirty feet.
-真的吗 -臭脚丫味 - Really? - Dirty feet.
小心点 很好 你去过哪些地方 Look out. Nice. How many places have you visited?
我的护照上盖了46个章 I have 46 stamps on my passport.
我的护照上刚好有49个 I happen to have 49 stamps on my passport.
-49个 我就知道 -没错 - Forty-nine? I knew it. - Yes.
-知道什么 -我就知道 - Knew what? - I knew it.
我们都是追求启示者 亲爱的 We are both antevasins, my dear.
什么意思 What is that?
追求启示者 Antevasin is....
是一种于夹缝中生存的人 It's an in-between.
是生活在边缘处的人 It is the one who lives by the border...
因为他们放弃了安逸的家庭生活 ...because they renounce to the comfort of family life...
以寻找生命的启示 ...in order to seek "enlightment."
我喜欢你这个词语 I like your word.
我喜欢你说"启示"时的语气 And l like the way you say "enlightment."
启示 我再说一次 "Enlightment." I try.
你漏了一个音节 不过我很喜欢 You're missing a syllable, but I like it.
很漂亮 对吧 It's beautiful, no?
这里是普拉梅丁 意思是 繁荣之庙 It's Pura Melanting, which means "temple of prosperity."
-真美 -没错 - Beautiful. - Yup.
-下一个旅游目标是 -对 - So next attraction of the tour? - Yes.
-巴厘岛的美食 -太好了 我饿死了 - Food from Bali. - Oh, good. I'm starving.
我们该去哪儿 Where should we go?
去镇上最好的餐馆 We should go to the best restaurant in town.
-很好 -我家 - Of course. - My place.
真狡猾 Subtle.
你来巴厘岛之前一直住在巴西吗 Did you always live in Brazil before you came to Bali?
没有 只生活了二十年 No, no. Only for 20 years.
遇到我妻子之后 跟她一起去了澳大利亚 Then I met my wife and I moved with her to Australia.
因为工作原因她经常出差 She traveled a lot because of the job.
我和孩子们在家里 And I stayed home with the children.
真是个女权派好丈夫 A good feminist husband.
是啊 遗憾的是 这并非她想要的 Yeah. Yeah. Didn't turn out to be what she wanted, I'm afraid.
-然后呢 -然后? - What happened? - What happened?
孩子们渐渐长大 The children were grown.
我就开始做珠宝进出口的生意 And I run an import-export jewelry business,
这样我就能在其它地方生活 so I could live anywhere.
巴厘岛似乎是治疗失败婚姻者的绝佳之地 And Bali seemed like the perfect place to recover from a divorce.
所以我就在这儿了 这就是我 And here I am. Here I am.
-你呢 怎么回事 -没你惨 - What's it, and you? - Far less tragic.
我们都不成熟 结婚尚早 就分手了 We were immature and really too young to get married. We grew apart.
伤心吗 Hearts were broken.
伤心 Yes.
那跟我就是一样的 Then it's the same.
这地方太美了 This is just perfect.
你也是 So are you.
你知道你是什么样子吗 你是"假瘦"型 You know what you are? You're a falsa magra.
-知道什么意思吗 -什么意思 - You know what that is? - What?
远看苗条优雅 You are slender and elegant in a distance...
近看丰满圆润 ...but up close, you are round and fleshy.
感谢上帝创造了巴西人 Thank God for Brazilians.
别过来 Stop that!
你是世界的旅人 You are a world traveler.
他跟每个人都那样说 He says that to everyone.
已经赚到了钱 Already make your money.
你没有年轻人的抱负 You don't have young-man ambition.
-说的没错 -你有三个孩子 - He's good. - You have three children.
两个 那是个老茧 Two. That's a callous.
你离过婚 And you have divorce.
非常艰难 Very difficult.
你很爱她 You loved her very much.
你还没有从中恢复 You haven't healed that wound.
现在你害怕敞开心扉 Now you are scared to open your heart.
你怕再次受伤 You are afraid hurt will happen to you again.
治愈的唯一办法就是 Only way to heal...
信任 ...is to trust.
没关系 伤心 This okay. To have broken heart
证明你曾经尝试过 mean you have tried for something.
我还会再次受伤吗 Is it going to be broken again?
他是个好人 莉兹 你需要一个好男人 He a good man, Liz. You need a good man.
谢谢 Thank you.
这是真的 赖爷知道 True. Ketut knows.
我十分厌倦人们跟我说我需要个男人 I am so sick of people telling me I need a man.
你不需要男人 莉兹 你需要个守护者 You don't need a man, Liz. You need a champion.
-休春假是吧 -快点 你们的速度好像乌龟 - Some spring break, huh? - Come on. You're moving like turtles.
他的旺盛精力真让人吃不消 His enthusiasm is exhausting.
十岁时他送我去学校 Try being dropped off at school when you're 10...
吻别还要亲嘴 ...and having your father kiss you on the mouth.
他现在还是这样 He still does it.
在巴西这很正常 I'm sure it's all normal in Brazil,
但我并不是在那儿长大的 but I didn't grow up in Brazil.
朋友们总是拿这个取笑我 Friends would tease the crap out of me.
那你为什么不跟他说 Why didn't you ask him to stop?
一开始想说的 但后来我知道 No, I did at first, but then l realized...
亲吻令他非常开心 就放弃了 ...how happy it made the old guy and l just gave in.
你们知道吗 我祖母比你们走得都快 You know what? My grandmother hikes faster than you both...
但她已经去世了 ...but she's already dead.
赶上他 快点儿 Get him. Go get him.
你背会儿包行吗 How about you carry the packs for a while, Ok?
来 看这景色 Come here. Look at this.
美吗 Is it nice?
宝贝 Baby.
在后面抱我一下 Bringing up the rear.
-你跟她睡过了吗 -什么 - So have you slept with her yet? - What was that?
你跟她睡过了吗 Have you slept with her yet?
这不该你问 Crossing the line.
老爸 都十年了 是时候了 Dad, it's been 10 years. It's time.
离所有漂亮女孩远点儿 Stay away from all the beautiful girls.
她们都很危险 They are dangerous.
一个星期真短 A week is too short.
一星期太短了 A week is too short.
听听看 我为你做的磁带 Listen, I've made you a mixtape.
这是送你的礼物 And I give you a present. For you.
谢谢 Thank you.
我已经开始想你了 I'm missing you already.
再见 莉兹 Bye, Liz.
-注意身体 -你也是 - Be safe. - Same to you.
还亲我吗 So don't I get a kiss?
不知道 I don't know.
-我爱你 爸爸 -我也爱你 - I love you, dad. - I love you too.
我知道我多傻 So stupid, I know.
他都十九岁了 高大的男子汉 He's 19 years old and he's such a man.
真甜蜜 It's sweet.
你很棒 You're sweet.
亲爱的 Darling...
是时候了 ...it's time.
-莉兹 -怎么了 - Liz. - What?
莉兹 来 我跟你说点儿事 Liz. Come here. I have to tell you something.
不行 我真的真的该去冥想了 No. I should really, really be meditating.
去吧去吧 Go, go. Do it.
我都两个星期没去看赖爷了 I have not been to see Ketut in two weeks.
-真的吗 -是 - Really? - Yes.
-好吧 快去 -好 - Okay. Go, go. - Okay.
天呢 但是你比赖爷可爱 Oh, gosh. But you are just so much cuter than Ketut.
不行 我必须走了 必须走 No, I have to go. I have to go.
为什么 Why?
你有膀胱感染 You have bladder infection.
这很正常 长时间没有性生活之后如此激烈 Common after no sex, then too much sexy time.
这两个星期 我们时时刻刻都在一起 We haven't even been apart for a minute in two weeks.
你害怕了 是吗 You're afraid now, right?
我了解 I understand.
你不想迷失自己 You don't want to lose yourself.
爱是可怕危险的 Love is scary, dangerous.
我经历过 Happen to me.
我每天祈祷 但是我丈夫仍对我不好 I pray every day, but husband bad for me.
我必须离开他 I have to get away from him.
这是他打的 This from where he hit me...
用摩托车头盔 ...with motorcycle helmet.
然后我的女儿 And then my daughter
求我离开他 she begged me to leave him.
对吗 宝贝 Is that right, honey?
我说 我认为你应该跟他离婚 I said, "I think you should get a divorce, mommy."
说这话的时候她四岁 She was 4 years old when she said it.
别对菲利普有看法 Don't feel bad about Felipe.
每个人都需要爱 亲爱的 Everybody needs affection, honey.
人们应该做些快乐的事情 Make people do funny things.
恋爱初始每个人都这样 Everyone gets like that at beginning of relationship.
想要更多的欢乐 享受 Want too much happiness, too much pleasure...
直到厌倦 ...until make yourself sick.
我的爱情 一开始也是这样的 Even to Wayan, this happen at beginning of my love affair.
我迷失了自己 莉兹 I lose myself, Liz.
亲朋好友们 Dear friends and loved ones:
我的生日就要到了 My birthday's coming up soon.
如果我在家 会准备场愚蠢 昂贵的 If I were home, l'd be planning a stupid, expensive
生日派对 而你们会 birthday party and you'd all be
送我礼物或者买瓶红酒 buying me gifts and bottles of wine.
不如来个更经济 更好的方式来庆祝 A cheaper, more lovely way to celebrate would be to
那就是为治疗师奴里亚西大姐捐款 make a donation to help a healer named Wayan Nuriyasih
帮助她在印尼买栋房子 buy a house in Indonesia.
她是个单身妈妈 在印尼 女人离婚后 She's a single mother. In Bali, after a divorce
便失去一切 甚至孩子 a woman gets nothing, not even her children.
为了留下她的女儿 图蒂 To gain custody of her daughter, Tutti,
大姐变卖家产 Wayan had to sell everything
甚至浴巾 用来支付律师费用 even her bath mat, to pay for a lawyer.
几年来 她们流离失所 For years, they've moved from place to place.
每当大姐失去客户群 图蒂就要换学校 Each time, Wayan loses clientele and Tutti has to change schools.
巴厘岛的这一小群人已成为我的家人 This little group of people in Bali have become my family.
无论在哪里 我们都要善待自己的家人 And we must take care of our families, wherever we find them.
今天我看见图蒂正在摆弄一片蓝瓷砖 Today I saw Tutti playing with a blue tile
那是她在一个酒店工地捡的 she'd found in the road near a hotel construction site.
她对我说 也许有一天我们拥有一栋房子 She told me: Maybe if we have a house someday
铺上这种美丽的蓝色地板 it can have a pretty blue floor like this.
当我在意大利时学了一个词 When I was in Italy, I learned a word--
-图蒂中有一对t -图蒂 - "Tutti" with double t. - Tutti.
这在意大利语中是"人人"的意思 --which in ltalian means "everybody."
这就是启示 不是吗 So that's the lesson, isn't it?
当你环游世界以自助时 When you set out in the world to help yourself
往往是以帮助图蒂[人人]而收场的 sometimes you end up helping Tutti.
-再说一遍 -一万八千美元 - Tell me again. - Eighteen thousand American dollars.
我带来了电子邮件 你可以看看 I brought you the e-mails to look at.
上帝啊 Oh, my God.
我们有房子了 We get a house.
那是所有人的房子 It can be the house for everybody!
我能有个药房 能有个图书馆 I can have a pharmacy! I can have a library!
-好了吗 上帝 -还不行 闭上眼睛 - All right. Oh, God. - Close them again. Close your eyes.
小心 你不想摔的很惨吧 Careful. You don't wanna break a tooth or anything.
-别担心 闭上眼睛 -要带我去哪儿 - Don't worry, but close your eyes. - Where are you taking me?
等下就会看到了 You will see.
-你帮大姐买了个房子 -是的 - You helped Wayan to get a house... - I know.
那我们该庆祝一下了 ...and we're going to celebrate.
-到了到了到了 -好吧 - Here, here, here. - All right. Ok, Ok
好了好了好了 Turn, turn, turn.
我知道我们在沙滩上 但没穿泳衣 I know we're at the beach and not have bathing suit.
这就是了 Here you go.
我们要坐船来个短期旅行 We're going to take a little boat trip.
去哪儿 Where?
去附近的一个小岛 To a little island nearby.
那是我最喜欢的地方 我已经打好两个包了 It's my favorite place in the world. I've packed for two.
我们可以在那里待到下星期二 We can stay there until next Tuesday.
我还有个非常好的露营地 And l have the perfect camping spot.
只有你和我 还有四百只鹦鹉 Just you and l and 400 parrots.
喜欢吗 Do you like it?
我本打算今晚告诉你的 I was going to save it for tonight,
但想了想 现在就是最好的时刻 but I think this is the right moment.
我要在巴厘岛 因为我在这儿做生意 I have to be in Bali because my business is here
你要在纽约 and you have to be in New York
因为你生活在那里 对吧 because that's where your life is, right?
如果我们努力创造一种生活 What if we tried to create a life that
在这两地之间分配时间 怎么样 is divided between the two places?
为什么要那么做呢 Why would you wanna do that?
因为我爱你 Because I'm in love with you.
-走吧 走 -不 我... - Let's go. Let's go. - Oh, no. I....
-怎么了 -我不能 对不起 - What? - I can't. I'm sorry.
-我只是... -你不去吗 - I just...- You can't?
-对不起 我不能 -什么不能 - I'm sorry. I can't. - Can't what?
我不能现在去旅行 我... I can't go on a trip right now, okay? I....
我已经五天没回家了 一个星期没见赖爷了 I haven't been home in five days. I haven't seen Ketut in weeks.
-这太过火了 -不过火 - It's just too much. - It's not much.
我们自己去旅行 To go by ourselves
几天里远离一切 对你来说过火吗 apart from everything else for a couple of days, is that much for you?
莉兹 告诉我 有什么问题 Liz, now tell me. What's the problem, Liz?
我是说 我有同样的恐惧 I mean, l have the same fears,
和你一样受过伤 I have the same scars that you have
并向你揭开伤疤 and I show them to you.
但我想你和我的区别只是 But I guess the only difference between you and I is that
你不敢再爱 you are afraid to love again.
亲爱的 就是这样 My darling, this is it.
你看着我的眼睛 告诉我真实的想法 You have to look me in the eye and let me know the truth.
说吧 爱不爱我 Please. Do you love me or do you love me not?
看着我的眼睛 告诉我 Look me in the eyes and tell me
爱不爱我 这很简单 do you love me or don't you love me not? It's very easy.
我知道你也有同感 为什么不能说出来 I know you feel the same way. Why can't you say it back?
我不知道为什么 I don't know why.
我为什么不能 Why can't l?
因为你害怕 亲爱的 Because you're terrified, my love.
但是没关系 我也这样 But listen, it's fine. Me too.
我仍想和你一起乘船旅行 But l still want to get into that boat with you.
-不 好吧 听着 -什么 - No. Okay, look. Look. - What?
我不明白你为什么不能理解 I don't know why you can't understand this.
我找到了一些东西 不能就此放弃 I found something and I can't give it up.
我相信 如果我放弃了 你也不会如此爱我了 And trust me, if I did, you wouldn't be so all in love with me.
好吧 是关乎平衡 Okay, the balance thing.
你环游世界以求身心平衡 You traveled around the world to find your balance.
你以为你找到的平衡是什么 And the balance that you think you've found is what?
冥想二十分钟还是去见一个老药师 Meditating for 20 minutes and going to see an old medicine man?
听着 平衡 亲爱的 Listen, balance, my darling,
平衡不是让每个人爱你 balance is not letting anybody love you
-至少你要自爱 -你懂什么 你不懂 - less than you love yourself. - You know what? You know what?
别跟我说过去一年我的得失 Do not tell me what lessons I have and haven't learned in the last year
也别说你有多平衡多明智 and don't tell me how balanced and wise you are
我就不能展现自我 and how I can't express myself.
别再对我说"亲爱的" And do not say "darling" to me again
我马上就不是了 because I am just gonna lose it.
听着 我不需要用爱你来证明自爱 Listen to me! I do not need to love you to prove that I love myself.
要离开我了吗 Run away from me?
你离开的是你一生中 You are running away from all
最有可能实现的梦想 the great possibilities of your own life.
我要走了 I'm getting into that boat.
送给你的 For you.
离别礼物 A goodbye gift.
赖爷
Ketut.
小莉 Liss
你拯救了我 you healed me.
你也拯救了我 赖爷 You healed me too, Ketut.
如果不是你 我不会回到巴厘岛 If it wasn't for you, I wouldn't have come back to Bali
也不会重新找到自我 and I wouldn't have come back to myself.
要咖啡吗 来点儿烤猪肉吗 You want coffee? Roast pig?
要咖啡 Coffee.
我给你去拿 I get you coffee.
你马上就回美国了吗 You fly back to America soon?
两小时之后 In two hours.
你坐过飞机吗 赖爷 Have you ever been on an airplane, Ketut?
赖爷不能坐飞机 Ketut cannot fly on aeroplane.
因为赖爷没有牙齿 Ketut have no teeths.
你是我的好朋友 You are good friend to me.
像个女儿 You are like daughter.
当我死的时候 When I die
你会来巴厘岛参加我的火葬吗 you will come back to Bali? Come to my cremation?
巴厘岛人的火葬仪式很有趣 Balinese cremation ceremony is very fun.
-你会喜欢的 -好吧 - You will like it. - Okay.
你还会如我告诉你那样 发自肺腑的笑吗 You still smile with your liver, like l tell you?
是的 Yes.
你还会如印度宗师所教导的那样 去冥想吗 You still meditate like your guru in India teach you?
-是的 -你现在对上帝满意了吗 - Yes. - You happy now with God?
-满意 -你爱你的新男友吗 - Yes. - You love your new boyfriend?
结束了 I ended it.
不明白你为什么要这么做 Don't understand. Why you do that?
因为我无法保持平衡 I couldn't keep my balance.
小莉 听着 Liss, listen to Ketut.
有时 为爱失去平衡 Sometimes to lose balance for love
是平衡生活的一部分 is part of living balanced life.
终于 In the end
我开始笃信一些 I've come to believe in something
我称之为"追求物理学"的规则 I call "The Physics of the Quest."
这是自然力的定律 A force in nature governed by laws
如同引力定律 as real as the laws of gravity.
"追求物理学"的规则是这样的 The rule of Quest Physics goes someting like this:
如果你有足够勇敢离开 If you're brave enough to leave behind
所有熟悉和令人欣慰的事物 everything familiar and comforting,
这些事物可以是任何事情 which can be anything
可以是房子或是久远的痛苦的怨恨 from your house to bitter, old resentments
并准备开始一段 and set out on a truth-seeking journey
内外兼修的求真之旅 either externally or internally
如果你真的相信 and if you are truly willing to regard
途中发生的一切是揭开真相的线索 everything that happens to you on that journey as a clue
如果你接受途中所见之人的教诲 and if you accept everyone you meet along the way as a teacher
如果你准备好了 那么最重要的是 and if you are prepared, most of all
面对并宽恕自己难以应对的现实 to face and forgive some very difficult realities about yourself
然后 真理便会呈现眼前 then the truth will not be withheld from you.
菲利普 Felipe?
我只能相信 我的感受 I can't help but believe it, given my experience.
日落时分 码头见
我选择了自己的词语 I decided on my word.
意思是 It means:
我们过街吧 "Let's cross over."